
Toma has abandonment issues or is slowly developing those issues. His biological mother died and for a while he was depressed and dense like his Dad before his "mama" came. Now he sees sunshine and rainbows which is a total relief. Kids will remain kids no matter what it's hard to expect a 4 year old child to act good no matter how much you parent the child. It took my dad like 10 years of spanking me until I actually learned and that's the issue with every kid

i acted out more and learnt to be sneaky when my parents used to do "physical disciplining". took them a decade to realize that i behaved better when they explained things properly instead (also observed through my sister's kids) but the emotional impact was lasting so they'll always be grey characters to me
I say this for all of us. Toma needs a nice spanking! Yes, I said it. I hate seeing out of control kids. It shows a lack of home training!!!