as much as i like Toma and BL with babies.. this is not how you handle a kid who's throwin...

don't hit kids ?? tf ????

True, my parents would’ve grabbed a hanger to smack me if i threw a tantrum like that and i would’ve done the same to my children

????? What the hell???? Children are human beings, just talk to them for fuck's sake! (and I would know as I have a kid)

well u could try talking to them but not all kids are good at listening, i have a kid too believe me when I say that, not all kids are the same. it's ok hit them but not much force of course. just to let them know that u have the authority to stop them whatever it is they're getting at. but after that i tell em the reason why i did that to them. so they could understand what they did was wrong

did you really seriously take what i said true? that i will do that? when i said it here? on an illegal platform? dude have a grip on reality im obviously completely trolling .. my god these people ╮(￣▽￣)╭.. im letting my intrusive thoughts talk freely in this anonymous acct you see..

Whaaat oml y'all grew up with some terrible parenting

omg my parents too umbrella one time when i was 6 LMFAOO but i wouldnt even do the same to my kids if i had any

hes like....what 4? 5?

i have a kid too but the word "No" is well established in their minds.. they can get and do things they want as long as it is appropriate for them, BUT there is a time and place for everything .. i dont smack them, but they know when i am being firm with my No and Yes .. i don't cry like joon or like go "oh my heart aches if i don't bring them along" .. coz like i said i taught them early as soon as they learned how to walk, so they wont become nuisance to society even when they are young..

heh yeah..

that's so true, being a parent is so damn hard, specially when they started talking back at u just because u scolded them for they're wrong doing., ┗( T﹏T )┛

Hello? I’m not saying being abusive is okay and i’m not saying gentle parenting is for everyone. It depends on ur kids surrounding upbringing and ur teachings, being firm is the way for me and my surroundings. From where i live, if u spoil ur kids they’ll never learn how to respect and if smacking them will teach them respect, then why not? ╮(￣▽￣)╭

perhaps try talking to them before you hit them ??? idk if teaching ur kids that you're willing & able to control them using violence is a particularly good move

well for me if talking calmly won't do & still won't listen, that's the time i do spanking part, not to much that is. just to tell them who should listen to who, i also listen to they're reasons why they want that or why they did that, so that we could understand each other, me as a mother & them as my child.