Omg! The way you said everythng in my heart. I read the raws a while back and during this scene I just can't believe how wrong Jiho did Inwoo. I mean Inwoo is always careful about the fact that Jiho doesn't like being too public and he respects him and doesn't push it, even with Jiho's family, he was so patient and understanding and supporting Jiho.
Meanwhile Jiho goes and forces him to meet with his mother who is literally a source of his trauma. You don't force someone who is not ready to meet their trauma no matter what, anyone who has a brain knows that. You take it slow and atleast talk to them at the very least.
Also I don't think they dragged out the ex-fuck buddy plot too much and from what I remember Jiho ends up going and apologizing. I won't say more since that would be a spoiler but yeah, I really hope Jiho gets a brain soon and sorts it out cause this is just plain dumb from his side.
Exactly and agree.
Inwoo really did a number on jiho by kissing him publicly like, how you like that? Doesnt feel so good having your insecurities thrust upon you, does it. And jiho just ponders about how his plan failed. This really hit a nerve within me. Imo this is just bad writing from the writer, but how can i not expect them to be practical when theyve been so realistic up to this point? Why did jiho not think that he hurt him and why was his first thought about "HIS" plan. Sorry im getting a little personal here bcz i deal with people like these everyday where they dont realize their mistake and they make everything about themselves and begins the self pity. Just address the problem and say it was wrong of me i shouldn’t have done that. He really shouldn’t have made it about himself.
Literally and this isn't even the end of it. He does the same thing once again I think all while thinking that he can fix Inwoo, he can change Inwoo, he can help Inwoo get over it but like if anything, you do not force this sort of thing on another person.
I have social anxiety and just trying to converse with someone is so so hard and causes me so much anxiety meaning I would hate it if someone pushed me like this or put me in such a situation where I'm not comfy and nervous. For Inwoo, Jiho was the one who's supposed to understand and love him and respect the boundaries but the way he did so and then wonders why.
I mean has he never tried to see Inwoo's perspective?! It's so absurd to me.
It's common sense that you do not force a person unexpectedly, out of nowhere to face their trauma or put them in that spot. It's terrifying and if anything Jiho should know that and understand it.
I guess this was the authors way of adding conflict but it doesn't fit with Jiho's previous character-building. Still oh well, angst and stuff ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Oh yes youre absolutely true for that. This new characterization of jiho really doesnt fit what the author had built up in the previous chapters which is why this feels so conflicting and frustrating
Ugh! Yes!
oh god he forced inwoo to meet his mother and when inwoo reacted like he should, his first concern was how he failed to change him.jiho did not feel any sort of regret as to how jiho overstepped his boundaries. I come from a loving household and i havent seen any toxic shit while growing up and even i know when not to fuck around. People always have different circumstances its always so important to be considerate.
Also fuck jiho why did the first person he run to was his ex-fuck buddy? Now theyre gonna stretch this particular plot and drag on with misunderstandings so much, i just fucking hate how predictable this is. I loved this bcz of its familiarity and how it was so close to realistic feelings but this is just heading towards the same old cliche bl hill. Fuck this man