People yapping about rape in a MLM comic written by a Korean straight woman, don't expect ...

n1dohyeokdeffender July 5, 2024 4:49 am

People yapping about rape in a MLM comic written by a Korean straight woman, don't expect much

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    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 5:59 pm
    I honestly don’t care as much about who’s a rapist or not. It just bothers me when people defend a rapist and then hate on another rapist. Why hate on someone who’s the same kind of rapist? They should de... HRAensn

    Unfortunately you do... you are saying why people don't think the same way as you...

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:02 pm
    I think we are going in circles... like I'm keep saying no one is questioning whether rape/abuse is wrong or right... This is story is showing "part" of reality and the rest is would've/should've/could've of th... Mangalover1

    Rape is part of reality but is this story wit the rape reality? No.

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:03 pm
    Unfortunately you do... you are saying why people don't think the same way as you... Mangalover1

    I never said: Why don’t people think the same as me?
    I’m asking people to at least not be hypocritical, that does not equate to me being unable to separate fiction and reality. What’s happening in this fiction can happen in reality, but is the story with said non con real? NO.

    Can we judge fiction? Of course. We have that right, like you, nobody can tell readers to stop being serious or writing reviews. What we don't have the right to do is harass or bully the authors, but we can absolutely voice our thoughts about the content presented.

    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 6:03 pm
    Tell me this. Are people obligated to separate fiction from reality when the fiction has reality? It’s not some sort of escapism if you’re reading a story that shows trauma and mental health, spreading awar... HRAensn

    People not obligated to think the same way as you. If they want to separate let them be, if not - let them be lol. But arguing and trying to convince others to think/behave/like/agree with your point/morals/views is hypocrisy

    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 6:07 pm
    I never said: Why don’t people think the same as me?I’m asking people to at least not be hypocritical, that does not equate to me being unable to separate fiction and reality. What’s happening in this fic... HRAensn

    You aren't asking, you are demanding! And if people disagree with your opinion you are getting in defensive mode.

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:07 pm
    People not obligated to think the same way as you. If they want to separate let them be, if not - let them be lol. But arguing and trying to convince others to think/behave/like/agree with your point/morals/vie... Mangalover1

    Right, people aren’t obligated to think the way others want. If they want to separate, sure, which I’m not blaming them for. If not, let them be, which you are keep going on about despite saying that?

    I am not convincing anyone to think the same. I think you’re pulling it out of your head, it is not hypocrisy to ask others to be not hypocritical.

    I don’t think you get my point no matter how much I state it:

    1. I don’t care too much if people defend rape, because it’s fiction.

    2. I’m saying that people who defend rapists should defend all rapists, it’s fiction, no? So how come they are being hypocritical?

    3. You’re the one who keeps telling me to stop arguing and let it be. We are readers, and you do not have the right to tell others what to do or can’t do. Am I stopping anyone? No. I’m simply calling out the double standards. Both characters are rapists, but only one of them is okay.

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:11 pm
    You aren't asking, you are demanding! And if people disagree with your opinion you are getting in defensive mode. Mangalover1

    Me pointing out the hypocrisy and their double standards is too demanding? We are readers, people are free to say anything. Why do you think there are book reviews, readers commenting and judging the story as well as other readers?

    First, you told me I’m hating on those who defend rapists. No. I don’t even care about that as much, and then you bring in about fiction and reality, as if I can’t separate them. Yes, I can, it isn’t a hard thing especially when you’ve been so desensitized to it.

    Then you tell me I should let people be even do they can’t separate fiction and reality. So why’re you telling me I can’t separate fiction and reality as if I’m wrong for that? Is that an issue for you?

    Readers are free to review and express their thoughts without being told by someone to don’t think deeply or being told they cant separate reality from fiction, and then you say just let those people be. I’m not understanding.

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:13 pm
    You aren't asking, you are demanding! And if people disagree with your opinion you are getting in defensive mode. Mangalover1

    “it's comments to fictional characters and not real victims of abuse.”

    People are free to still find comfort in stories and judge the characters without being told how they can’t separate fiction from reality. They can see victims in the characters, even if it’s fiction. It’s another thing if people act on what they see from fiction, it’s not the creator’s fault.

    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 6:13 pm
    Right, people aren’t obligated to think the way others want. If they want to separate, sure, which I’m not blaming them for. If not, let them be, which you are keep going on about despite saying that? I am ... HRAensn

    1. You do care, because you are keep going and going... and now we have 2 pages of text
    2. People have preference and likes in character(s) and they can defend them as much as they want.
    3. I don't tell you to stop at all. I'm just replying to you and your thoughts and sharing my view

    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 6:14 pm
    1. You do care, because you are keep going and going... and now we have 2 pages of text2. People have preference and likes in character(s) and they can defend them as much as they want. 3. I don't tell you to s... Mangalover1

    3. I didn't finish... my point and my thoughts

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:15 pm
    1. You do care, because you are keep going and going... and now we have 2 pages of text2. People have preference and likes in character(s) and they can defend them as much as they want. 3. I don't tell you to s... Mangalover1

    1. So I can’t comment but you’re allowed to? Hypocrisy.

    2. I never really had an issue with who they defend. This isn’t even a matter of reality vs fiction, it’s just double standards. People are free to judge others, you can’t stop them.

    3. You clearly are acting as if I’m wrong for judging others based off their contradictory and hypocritical thoughts of the character. The whole comment section is being judge mental, that’s part of being a human being. I’m sharing my view as well.

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:17 pm
    1. You do care, because you are keep going and going... and now we have 2 pages of text2. People have preference and likes in character(s) and they can defend them as much as they want. 3. I don't tell you to s... Mangalover1

    Suddenly people can’t judge others and call out any hypocrisy, you are disliking me judging others. 2 pages of text is nothing.

    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 6:24 pm
    Me pointing out the hypocrisy and their double standards is too demanding? We are readers, people are free to say anything. Why do you think there are book reviews, readers commenting and judging the story as w... HRAensn

    1.You are talking everything way to serious(I'm repeating myself) I never said "you are hating", I didn't even use the word hate -anywhere.
    2. You are taking my comments personally. I use abstract approach to comments and not direct. Compare to you. I don't have issues with you separate fiction and really- it's your right, I can't take it from you
    3. No one is questioning reviewing or expressing thoughts. It doesn't mean arguing or convincing to your point of view. That's not the same thing.

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:27 pm
    1.You are talking everything way to serious(I'm repeating myself) I never said "you are hating", I didn't even use the word hate -anywhere.2. You are taking my comments personally. I use abstract approach to co... Mangalover1

    1. Now you’re demanding me to be unserious? Why does it matter if someone is serious? I happen to be a serious person, I’m sorry for that?

    2. You clearly have an issue with people who aren’t able to separate fiction and reality. Cause then why would you tell me I can’t separate it as if it’s bad.

    3. What the heck are you saying? The whole comment section is people expressing their thoughts, replying to others, including their moral compass.

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:29 pm
    1.You are talking everything way to serious(I'm repeating myself) I never said "you are hating", I didn't even use the word hate -anywhere.2. You are taking my comments personally. I use abstract approach to co... Mangalover1

    And if you’re going to micromanage, at least stick to it and don’t demand others to be unserious.

    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 6:30 pm
    1. So I can’t comment but you’re allowed to? Hypocrisy.2. I never really had an issue with who they defend. This isn’t even a matter of reality vs fiction, it’s just double standards. People are free to... HRAensn

    You saying you don't have an issue but then contradicting to yourself lol if you don't have issues you would have a need to judge. Judging is choosing one side or another. Which is contradicting with "I never really had an issue.."

    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 6:32 pm
    And if you’re going to micromanage, at least stick to it and don’t demand others to be unserious. HRAensn

    For the third time... you are taking it personally lol

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:35 pm
    You saying you don't have an issue but then contradicting to yourself lol if you don't have issues you would have a need to judge. Judging is choosing one side or another. Which is contradicting with "I never r... Mangalover1

    I meant I don’t have an issue with those who are defending rapists as much as you think, it’s more of hypocrisy that sets me. At least don’t be hypocritical.

    HRAensn July 5, 2024 6:36 pm
    For the third time... you are taking it personally lol Mangalover1

    Are you still counting? It’s not that serious like you tell yourself.

    Mangalover1 July 5, 2024 6:37 pm
    1. Now you’re demanding me to be unserious? Why does it matter if someone is serious? I happen to be a serious person, I’m sorry for that?2. You clearly have an issue with people who aren’t able to separa... HRAensn

    Where are you getting this?! Hate/demand? I don't even use those words but you are twisting my words to feed your narrative and taking it personally. Gosh lol assuming things on my behalf and clear knowing with what I have or not have issues. Again... expressing not equal to forcing/arguing with others to think the same way as you