Responses
Yes, that's why the captain referred to her as the black sheep of the family, that they wouldn't want to hear about their dead "son" on the streets. he said oops because he knows he was misgendering her, and even keeps misgendering her after that.
Also the warning at the beginning of the chapter confirms it too
I didn't realize what the "son" thing meant at first, it was a little hard to get, I did assume it was a transphobic thing from the way it sounded but I wasn't sure. finding out I was made me very angry