Ever wonder why in Manga, After divorce one parent just disappears?

jackjack July 3, 2024 11:15 pm

i recently just found out that in Japan they dont have Split custody laws. In case of divorce, one parent takes sole "ownership" of the child.
The remaining parent is then banned by the law of seeing that child. (idk if the ramaining parent can still alow visit but its not the norm)

That is why in manga and anime, after divorce one parent disappears and is never spoken of again.

In 2024 the law was voted on to change. Allow divorced couples to share custody of their children from 2026.


this isnt a question but i wanted to share this info. it has always confused me.
i was always like "after you left, why did you not visit your child?!" and "why are yall acting like this about the child" and "why are you seperating the twins and now they never see eachother again??"

Now We know.

Responses
    Andrew Tate July 3, 2024 11:12 pm

    I don’t think this happens in Korea tho so why is this plot also common in manhwas?

    Tits July 3, 2024 11:13 pm

    Omg that makes so much sense now. Thank you so much for the info! Very wierd law and it probably effected a lot of kids in japan negatively. I cant imagine what its like for a kid to just never see a parent again. Im guessing they must have felt very abandoned. Its probably also another reason behind the low birth rates even among couples( ̄∇ ̄")

    jackjack July 3, 2024 11:23 pm

    Help i edited because i made spelling errors and the edit auto deleted all the previous comments befoe i was able ot read them.
    i hate that mango does this.
    ヽ(`Д´)ノ

    jackjack July 3, 2024 11:29 pm
    I don’t think this happens in Korea tho so why is this plot also common in manhwas? Andrew Tate

    i have no idea. I didnt look into Custody laws in korea.
    If there isnt a law like this in korea yet they still write like this its possible that it might just be because
    1) to play up the drama
    2) Influence from outside sources ( eg: its just become a comon trope and its just used in general without thinking of location)
    3) an excuse to erase a character from the story.

    i'm not sure 100% but from a quick google it does seem like parent do have visitation rights. How comon it is, is up to korean culture and the norm. Im not from there so idk

    Gazella July 3, 2024 11:31 pm

    this is so interesting

    jackjack July 3, 2024 11:33 pm
    I don’t think this happens in Korea tho so why is this plot also common in manhwas? Andrew Tate

    hold up...
    why am i talking to andrew tate on Mgo T0T

    lolll

    jackjack July 3, 2024 11:38 pm
    Omg that makes so much sense now. Thank you so much for the info! Very wierd law and it probably effected a lot of kids in japan negatively. I cant imagine what its like for a kid to just never see a parent aga... Tits

    agree sm.
    Sadly its an old law that was just never changed until now
    the law is from about 1896 if im getting the information correct.

    this is what I just found:
    "Under the current framework, which dates back to 1898, only one divorced parent can obtain custody over the children."

    Uhmno July 3, 2024 11:58 pm

    Wtf

    jackjack November 22, 2024 12:17 am
    I don’t think this happens in Korea tho so why is this plot also common in manhwas? Andrew Tate

    i have no idea but ngl
    im manhwa specifically i see a similar but different situation more often. i actually see just plain child abandonment.
    im guessing a lot of ppl resent becoming parents in korea since raising a child there is very hard.

    so maybe thats why?
    might actually be straight abandonment in their case. both parents fight because they dont wanna be "dumped" with the kid