He’ll make his mind up once he realizes who it is he’s in love with.
How is Ian leading Jo on when it's Jo who's been pathetically clinging into Ian? He literally begged him to let him stay by his side when Ian wanted to end things with him. You guys need to stop blaming Ian for everything that happens to others, he never asked anything from anybody
ian isnt naive nigga…u actually have to be so slow not to find fault in ian bro esp after him basically saying he would like to go camping… if thats not getting someone hopes up.. then idk what is..ian is subconsciously clinging to jo too idiot. ian is a whore and thats that…if u live by ur last sentence u must be insufferable.. your actions can be taken in various ways
The only slow one here is you. Getting all bothered because i said you Jo pursued Ian and is still pursuing him. If you can't read just say that. Dumbass
Odd, you sound like you’re saying Ian should never voice his feelings just because Jo ignored the fact that Ian told him they wouldn’t be seeing each other exclusively as he doesn’t commit to relationships. Jo then decided to still go through with it and build on a friendship. So no, Ian isn’t clinging to Jo. They’re involved. They’re friends. They like each other. When those things intertwine and you find yourself experiencing something new like camping, what is done here isn’t “getting someone’s hopes up.” It’s being true to how you’re feeling.
So no, The one at fault isn’t the one who wants to go camping. It’s the one who heard “we’ll be non-exclusive sex friends” and decided to cling to him even though he himself is monogamous. His hopes are up because he decided he would get someone like that to be theirs exclusively. It’s his own fault. Ian cannot be responsible for the decisions he made in his own head. Sure, caring about someone else’s feelings can define you as a nice person. However putting one’s own feelings first doesn’t make them a bad person either (you might not have said those words, but it’s what’s understood through your statements).
tj aint gon fuck u bro
Glad to know that was your comeback lmfao. At least we know you understand reason. Have a nice day.
if ian wants to stay w the gang, be w tj, if he wants to leave, be w jo. but make up ur fucking mind and stop leading jo on. sure yall have a history (not chemistry) but if tj’s logic is gonna stay as “you cant leave me” then i dont want him w ianesp if jo will drop all things and give him the world