Adibaby,You're just projecting your lack of morals and loyalty on some other couple. Maybe YOUR long distance wouldn't last coz you probably won't be able to have a genuine loving relationship with your partner but news flash there are people who are really in love and are ready to be in LDR for sometime to have a great future together. So ummmm, stop projecting and start working on yourself maybe?
Not everyone has the same mentality as you! Distance is nothing when you truly love a person and wants to spend a lifetime together! If people starts breaking up like you at the fact that they miss the other person then IDK who they should date. It’s not always Bongsoo’s responsibility to come to him, he took the initiative to go to see Bongsoo shows that they are willing to make efforts for their relationship and for each other.
You're making a lot of assumptions abt a person you know absolutely nothing abt. You have no idea what my morals are or my level of loyalty are. Maybe YOU should stop assuming you know everything abt a person based on one comment and work on yourself? Also there's a way to deliver a msg to someone without being asinine so maybe you could work on that too.
Yessssss, got you exactly where i wanted you. Lemme explain:
So here's the thing, your first comment literally said "In reality they'd break up." Who are you to assume what would happen in reality? You generalized every LDR, assumed everything about LDR couples YOU know NOTHING about and now you're sobbing coz you got a taste of your own medicine? I made sure I made presumptuous statement about you so could understand what you said and did when you commented. Hope that helped you come right back to earth and realise it's easy to comment and difficult to be on the receiving end of such comments. Have a good lyf Byeeeee!!!
Are YOU in LDR and I triggered you and that's why your comments are full of vitriol? There's a way to get across your point without personal attacks. I was in a LDR and guess what? He cheated and we broke up. Long distance relationships DON'T LAST and you'll NEVER change my mind. Not everyone is going to agree with your opinion, learn how to deal with that, without throwing personal attacks at them.
Oh sweetheart, but just because your man cheated doesn’t mean everyone will right? Look how beautiful their relationship is! And where I live, maximum people work in the capital leaving their wife and family behind only coming on weekends. My father was in army so we only saw him once every year, he even went on mission in another country for 2 years. But the relationship between them is perfectly fine. What I want to say is, Who wants to cheat will cheat, it’s not about distance it’s about morals and ethics which they failed to learn.
I'm chiming in here, I am sorry that you got cheated on I really am, fuck that guy. . However my bf and I were apart once for a year and a half because of work. We were about a 4 hour drive and took turns visiting every weekend. That was a few years ago, and now that dude and I are living together. So I invalidated your statement that you consider as fact right there. As for even just in this fictional story, Bongsoo went through so much to get Jiwon to like him, if you read the whole thing you would realize he is the last seme to ever do something to hurt Jiwon. Jiwon never wanted to breakup either and certainly wouldn't hurt Bongsoo as well.
I think your missing the point here tho. This person is entitled to think ldr will never work and they can headcanon this FICTION COUPLE can break up. They are entitled to that. But you didn't need to attack their character or shame them. There was a nicer way around this whole situation where you just commented "Oh I don't think so... I mean they seem to be fine, look at all that smut lol" but you choose violence sis/bro/person. And your not the only person, don't bully and degrade a person just for having a different opinion.
But guys really. They live in South Korea and he didn't go to America, their ldr is like 4 hours away at max. Like bruh... y'all can easily vist each other every weekend. My teacher had a boyfriend who lived 3 hours away and you bet your ass she drove to his place every weekend. These boys are being dramatic ( ̄∇ ̄")
In reality, they'd break up. If I was Jiwon I'd break up with Bongsoo now, why prolong the inevitable?