Long distance relationships DON'T LAST

Adibaby June 29, 2024 5:43 pm

In reality, they'd break up. If I was Jiwon I'd break up with Bongsoo now, why prolong the inevitable?

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    mj_015 July 6, 2024 1:21 am

    correction: in reality long distance relationships don’t last when both individuals aren’t willing to put in the effort required to maintain the relationship as if there was no distance between them. so in reality bongsoo and jinwons relationship would last.

    Ace July 6, 2024 8:23 am

    Adibaby,You're just projecting your lack of morals and loyalty on some other couple. Maybe YOUR long distance wouldn't last coz you probably won't be able to have a genuine loving relationship with your partner but news flash there are people who are really in love and are ready to be in LDR for sometime to have a great future together. So ummmm, stop projecting and start working on yourself maybe?

    illusion July 6, 2024 12:13 pm

    Not everyone has the same mentality as you! Distance is nothing when you truly love a person and wants to spend a lifetime together! If people starts breaking up like you at the fact that they miss the other person then IDK who they should date. It’s not always Bongsoo’s responsibility to come to him, he took the initiative to go to see Bongsoo shows that they are willing to make efforts for their relationship and for each other.

    Adibaby July 6, 2024 4:59 pm
    Adibaby,You're just projecting your lack of morals and loyalty on some other couple. Maybe YOUR long distance wouldn't last coz you probably won't be able to have a genuine loving relationship with your partner... Ace

    You're making a lot of assumptions abt a person you know absolutely nothing abt. You have no idea what my morals are or my level of loyalty are. Maybe YOU should stop assuming you know everything abt a person based on one comment and work on yourself? Also there's a way to deliver a msg to someone without being asinine so maybe you could work on that too.

    Adibaby July 6, 2024 5:01 pm
    correction: in reality long distance relationships don’t last when both individuals aren’t willing to put in the effort required to maintain the relationship as if there was no distance between them. so in ... mj_015

    I disagree

    Ace July 6, 2024 6:17 pm
    You're making a lot of assumptions abt a person you know absolutely nothing abt. You have no idea what my morals are or my level of loyalty are. Maybe YOU should stop assuming you know everything abt a person b... Adibaby

    Yessssss, got you exactly where i wanted you. Lemme explain:

    So here's the thing, your first comment literally said "In reality they'd break up." Who are you to assume what would happen in reality? You generalized every LDR, assumed everything about LDR couples YOU know NOTHING about and now you're sobbing coz you got a taste of your own medicine? I made sure I made presumptuous statement about you so could understand what you said and did when you commented. Hope that helped you come right back to earth and realise it's easy to comment and difficult to be on the receiving end of such comments. Have a good lyf Byeeeee!!!

    Arualo July 7, 2024 8:18 am
    Yessssss, got you exactly where i wanted you. Lemme explain:So here's the thing, your first comment literally said "In reality they'd break up." Who are you to assume what would happen in reality? You generaliz... Ace

    Oop u ate them up

    Farscapewho747 July 12, 2024 11:17 pm
    Yessssss, got you exactly where i wanted you. Lemme explain:So here's the thing, your first comment literally said "In reality they'd break up." Who are you to assume what would happen in reality? You generaliz... Ace

    Wow good one! Lol

    melon July 13, 2024 4:29 am
    Yessssss, got you exactly where i wanted you. Lemme explain:So here's the thing, your first comment literally said "In reality they'd break up." Who are you to assume what would happen in reality? You generaliz... Ace

    u got them so good! HAHHAHA cry now adibaby

    Adibaby July 13, 2024 7:25 am
    Yessssss, got you exactly where i wanted you. Lemme explain:So here's the thing, your first comment literally said "In reality they'd break up." Who are you to assume what would happen in reality? You generaliz... Ace

    Are YOU in LDR and I triggered you and that's why your comments are full of vitriol? There's a way to get across your point without personal attacks. I was in a LDR and guess what? He cheated and we broke up. Long distance relationships DON'T LAST and you'll NEVER change my mind. Not everyone is going to agree with your opinion, learn how to deal with that, without throwing personal attacks at them.

    illusion July 13, 2024 5:28 pm
    Are YOU in LDR and I triggered you and that's why your comments are full of vitriol? There's a way to get across your point without personal attacks. I was in a LDR and guess what? He cheated and we broke up. ... Adibaby

    Oh sweetheart, but just because your man cheated doesn’t mean everyone will right? Look how beautiful their relationship is! And where I live, maximum people work in the capital leaving their wife and family behind only coming on weekends. My father was in army so we only saw him once every year, he even went on mission in another country for 2 years. But the relationship between them is perfectly fine. What I want to say is, Who wants to cheat will cheat, it’s not about distance it’s about morals and ethics which they failed to learn.

    XieLianForever6969 July 13, 2024 10:12 pm
    Are YOU in LDR and I triggered you and that's why your comments are full of vitriol? There's a way to get across your point without personal attacks. I was in a LDR and guess what? He cheated and we broke up. ... Adibaby

    u literally just proved that ur projecting what bro just said "it didn't work out for me so it wont work out for you"

    Farscapewho747 July 13, 2024 10:23 pm
    Are YOU in LDR and I triggered you and that's why your comments are full of vitriol? There's a way to get across your point without personal attacks. I was in a LDR and guess what? He cheated and we broke up. ... Adibaby

    I'm chiming in here, I am sorry that you got cheated on I really am, fuck that guy. . However my bf and I were apart once for a year and a half because of work. We were about a 4 hour drive and took turns visiting every weekend. That was a few years ago, and now that dude and I are living together. So I invalidated your statement that you consider as fact right there. As for even just in this fictional story, Bongsoo went through so much to get Jiwon to like him, if you read the whole thing you would realize he is the last seme to ever do something to hurt Jiwon. Jiwon never wanted to breakup either and certainly wouldn't hurt Bongsoo as well.

    Mimimimimimimo July 20, 2024 6:24 am
    Oh sweetheart, but just because your man cheated doesn’t mean everyone will right? Look how beautiful their relationship is! And where I live, maximum people work in the capital leaving their wife and family ... illusion

    I think your missing the point here tho. This person is entitled to think ldr will never work and they can headcanon this FICTION COUPLE can break up. They are entitled to that. But you didn't need to attack their character or shame them. There was a nicer way around this whole situation where you just commented "Oh I don't think so... I mean they seem to be fine, look at all that smut lol" but you choose violence sis/bro/person. And your not the only person, don't bully and degrade a person just for having a different opinion.

    But guys really. They live in South Korea and he didn't go to America, their ldr is like 4 hours away at max. Like bruh... y'all can easily vist each other every weekend. My teacher had a boyfriend who lived 3 hours away and you bet your ass she drove to his place every weekend. These boys are being dramatic ( ̄∇ ̄")