I think her problem was that she didn’t actually WANT to be a wife or a mother and thats why she felt pressured to take part in their home life…. Anyone who actually WANTS to have that home/work balance pits in the work to do it…. I don’t like how their portraying her in an overly sympathetic way like she isn’t the one mistreating her husband.
Rightt, she barely put effort into the marriage. In chapters 86 she mentioned how she felt pressured to contribute with house work sometime, and she compared to how she lived when she was single as if there any equivalency to that. Wtf, if she stayed single will she just live in her own mess and takeout for the rest of her life?! And helping with chore is too difficult with extra person?! Huh?! They don't have kids and he did most of the work though, like what's so overwhelming?! Doing basic human function? Putting laundry in the washing machine?! Lol, she'll use any excuses honestly. She reminded of the menchild husband on tiktok.
Glad she decided to divorce though, she is not ready to be in a healthy relationship. And he just stucked in a limo trying to avoid the obvious aka divorce and seek out attention elsewhere and waiting for her to break it first. Geeze sooo freaking glad they're divorced.
Finally, FINALLY, I always confused on how she's so stuck on picking one over another. Chapter 84 actually mentioned about how her coworker had a busier schedule than her and she managed both. Like I understand it's difficult, but some people can manage fine. Her problems to me is that she can't grasp the idea of being a girl boss and a partner because she doesn't know how to manage her time/ not valuing the time she spent with her husband. Like girl if you can't do both, you gotta figure your time management/appreciating his company or leave.