i'm on chapter 14 and wondered why everytime i read a hetero manga, the FL usually does al...

What i June 27, 2024 9:44 pm

i'm on chapter 14 and wondered why everytime i read a hetero manga, the FL usually does all the heavy lifting in terms of communication and reaching out? it just seems so exhausting for one person to be the only one considerate and thoughtful while the other is nonchalant and blunt, and i'm only getting exhausted just from reading alone. is this really how heterosexual relationships are like in real life because a majority that i've read always go with this very same flow? (i'm a lesbian so i'm really clueless and concerned cause wtf lol)

Responses
    kay <3 June 27, 2024 10:48 pm

    Me too as a fellow lesbian - in these shoujo mangas it’s always the FL having to put all the work in while guy just is so vague and waits till the last second and lets misunderstandings grow , I hope mangakas try to prevent this in the future

    whispering_storm June 27, 2024 11:20 pm

    Unfortunately it’s the norm for boys irl to not be so communicative. I don’t get it

    kay <3 June 27, 2024 11:36 pm
    Unfortunately it’s the norm for boys irl to not be so communicative. I don’t get it whispering_storm

    yeah they just .. don’t think like ever

    Mariling June 27, 2024 11:51 pm

    Hahaha every couple is different. Usually boys brains work like different boxes for everything, but us girls are a mess of all off it. They are usually clueless, but if we take the time to explain what we feel and how our brain and heart works they make sure to protect it at all cost. Well, that's what I can say with my experience haha

    What i June 27, 2024 11:55 pm
    Me too as a fellow lesbian - in these shoujo mangas it’s always the FL having to put all the work in while guy just is so vague and waits till the last second and lets misunderstandings grow , I hope mangakas... kay <3

    i sure hope so too cause damn, surely the ML can shred their lil masculinity just for 5 seconds to communicate with the FL they claim to love, can't be that hard. Like sure, we are living that reality of males having misplaced and uncontrollable emotions but at least spare us for a moment and give us a fictitious emotionally mature male once in a while lol

    What i June 28, 2024 5:36 am
    Hahaha every couple is different. Usually boys brains work like different boxes for everything, but us girls are a mess of all off it. They are usually clueless, but if we take the time to explain what we feel ... Mariling

    Well that's a lot of labour. Good luck to y'all.