I honestly don't think that's what she meant. At first I was annoyed by her speech as well 'cause I thought the same as you but I think it was just worded poorly in the beginning. It's more like a message of "their ignorance and intolerance is just fear of their children being ostracized" Of course, that doesn't excuse their actions in any way since parents should love their kids unconditionally but instead of cutting ties and resenting her parents she should explain her story until they understand. Ofc this is just manga logic and realistically speaking there will be people that never understand but I don't think Wanwan's message was as simple as "accept your parents hatred towards you because they just want you to be safe" but more of a "try everything in your power to make them understand"
Sorry for the vent but I’m Hispanic so family means a lot to me but No shot this dumb bitch is like “it doesn’t matter if your parents start hating you, never understand you and even disown you for being gay they’re still your parents so try to understand them and listen to them since they want what’s “safe” for you” when the reason gay people have problem is cause of people like them. Like fuck off you dumb pussy. No parents should ever do that to their child that they so call love and if they do they aren’t parents just gross breeders. God, people like this annoyed me. Like to me the cunt is basically saying that “no matter how much your parents abuse you, theyre still your parents so suck it up and do as your told”