i don't think yoonseul is vanilla though. you're right in that rough sex doesn't equate to non-vanilla. but yoonseul has had fantasies about fucking joon in his office, which i don't think is vanilla at all
Fellas is it kinky to think fvcking your bf in the office but never even trying to do it outside of your apartment? I think not and voyerism is a very mild kink even vanilla ppl can have,,,
by vanilla i was thinking of pure old missionary sex haver. is voyeurism (i think exhibitionism is the better word) really vanilla though?
I think it's a mild kink, but vanilla isn't only missionary it's everything that is just plain sex no power dynamics, no external stuff just plain sex
this is incorrect? it’s not hardcore kinky, but it’s still out of the ordinary and feeds into sex plays/scenarios. “vanilla people” can still enjoy other types of sex, even rough or kinky
so no, fucking in an office where other people work/you can be fined or jailed is not vanilla. vanilla = more ordinary, plain, and easy sex. and thats okay, but wouldn’t be the case here if its NOT 100% safe
But they didn't even do it in the office they haven't done anything remotely kinky irl. Imagining isn't doing
misunderstood you there i thought you were only saying office sex = can still be vanilla, but they have had kinky sex. remember the comstant overstimulation and other rough positions
I need people in this comment section to understand that rough sex doesn't equal bdsm sex. They're still having vanilla sex.