its so amazing and interesting to me that so many people here confuse trauma bonding and/or codependency with love. Not just with this story but with most stories on this site.
The longer you know someome does not always equate to the strength of the relationship. The fact that Ian has said TJ is all he has, is sooo bad. its not romantic and heartwarming. it implies he needs him, and we will never know if the relationship is out of need or want.
Im sorry but when it comes to a relationship I want to want someone not need them because they are the only person Ive had in my.
its so amazing and interesting to me that so many people here confuse trauma bonding and/or codependency with love. Not just with this story but with most stories on this site.
The longer you know someome does not always equate to the strength of the relationship. The fact that Ian has said TJ is all he has, is sooo bad. its not romantic and heartwarming. it implies he needs him, and we will never know if the relationship is out of need or want.
Im sorry but when it comes to a relationship I want to want someone not need them because they are the only person Ive had in my.