are people really gonna frame this as if his concerns aren't valid. is a healthy relation...

hachi leaf June 20, 2024 9:37 pm

are people really gonna frame this as if his concerns aren't valid.

is a healthy relationship, dismissing all the problems and just having sex 24/7?

"communicate you two" they just did. even in irl you talk, but don't always engage a conversation immediately after having some concerns. there's a phase you THINK about it. irl you don't even report everything you think or find about each other and there's also moments of hesitation. im willing to bet these two communicate about their feelings more than 80% of the readers here ever do with their friends, family, or lover.

Responses
    meH June 20, 2024 9:46 pm

    hachi leaf speaking facts, caught in 4k, love to see it

    Weenie5 June 21, 2024 4:34 am

    nah skill issue i tell my partner if something is bothering me and he does too i get not being perfect but if he just realized talking about it helped a lot then started this again thats just bad writing and going in circles

    hachi leaf June 21, 2024 4:56 am
    nah skill issue i tell my partner if something is bothering me and he does too i get not being perfect but if he just realized talking about it helped a lot then started this again thats just bad writing and go... Weenie5

    they literally are always talking about it. reread it again. it's just that there's time they suspect something is wrong and then work on telling it and then they communicate. plus not everyone operates like you. it's like saying "get fucked" to people who has anxiety or people having a hard time expressing themselves. mc clearly is afraid a lot of times but he still finds himself telling his partner. and if you tell your partner everything then good for you, that just means you aren't the 80% im talking about. but that doesn't mean you can just up and say this couple has the most horrible communication ever just because they don't immediately say whatever comes to mind.

    hachi leaf June 21, 2024 4:59 am
    nah skill issue i tell my partner if something is bothering me and he does too i get not being perfect but if he just realized talking about it helped a lot then started this again thats just bad writing and go... Weenie5

    plus making a character that's insecure immediately be confident and proactive after one instance is bad writing lmao it's like you're writing a character's actions for the sake of it and not because that character will likely do this one thing. another is that we don't even know what will happen next yet you're already assuming they won't talk about this problem in the next chapter. yall always blame any inconvenience to bad writing lol

    Weenie5 June 21, 2024 8:04 pm

    its not that deep bro its really not this is a bl about a wold boy who gets horny all the time and this all is just angst from the author i don't know why you decided to just assume i don't have anxiety or a hard time expressing myself i just meant that these characters act by themselves despite repeatedly realizing thats not the solution also thinking ahead about what could happen next is called a hypothesis

    Weenie5 June 21, 2024 8:04 pm

    wolf*

    Weenie5 June 21, 2024 8:06 pm
    plus making a character that's insecure immediately be confident and proactive after one instance is bad writing lmao it's like you're writing a character's actions for the sake of it and not because that chara... hachi leaf

    thing is you can make them.do that? well if ur good at writing its called character development

    hachi leaf June 21, 2024 8:55 pm
    thing is you can make them.do that? well if ur good at writing its called character development Weenie5

    character development isn't making a character suddenly turn 180 at the drop of a hat lmao. you act like people become confident when they say "okay i will be confident, starting now!" yall know shit about writing, stop attributing any minor inconvenience to bad writing

    hachi leaf June 21, 2024 8:56 pm
    its not that deep bro its really not this is a bl about a wold boy who gets horny all the time and this all is just angst from the author i don't know why you decided to just assume i don't have anxiety or a ha... Weenie5

    baseline here is that not everyone operates like your nor how you act with your partner. don't be dense, it's not hard to understand. "it's not that deep" yall the reason media literacy is dying.

    Weenie5 June 21, 2024 10:16 pm
    baseline here is that not everyone operates like your nor how you act with your partner. don't be dense, it's not hard to understand. "it's not that deep" yall the reason media literacy is dying. hachi leaf

    its clear you are projecting ur irl insecurities into this too much and are online too much i hope you have a better day or get therapy if a commeng that wasn't supposed to be taken this seriously has offended you so deeply

    Weenie5 June 21, 2024 10:19 pm
    baseline here is that not everyone operates like your nor how you act with your partner. don't be dense, it's not hard to understand. "it's not that deep" yall the reason media literacy is dying. hachi leaf

    no baseline is i disagreed and you took it personally

    Weenie5 June 21, 2024 10:32 pm
    baseline here is that not everyone operates like your nor how you act with your partner. don't be dense, it's not hard to understand. "it's not that deep" yall the reason media literacy is dying. hachi leaf

    in my og comment i said i get not being perfect meaning i don't actually expect anyone to be this straightforward just that this plot keeps going in circles pleantly of pwople feel the same way i do.
    ik you read as much smut as i do and you know as well that most bl manga has very little plot especially porn so when your ead one thats obviously not there for the plot and judt for smut liek this its reasonable to expect a more casual experience when taking in this media. bashing my whole persona because of your own opinions opinions that have noting todo with me anymore at this point you are taking ur anger out on me and assumptions is pretty abnoxious and pretentious

    Basic Dickhead June 22, 2024 12:58 am
    in my og comment i said i get not being perfect meaning i don't actually expect anyone to be this straightforward just that this plot keeps going in circles pleantly of pwople feel the same way i do.ik you read... Weenie5

    "thats just bad writing and going in circles"

    So characters that communicates poorly = bad writing??

    Idk bruh but just look at real life, just because people communicate, doesn't mean everything is solved? Because not everyone can communicate properly??

    Like there's so many couples who do communicate but there's little progress or sometimes, they just repeat themselves, and that's because people have their own personality/setbacks??

    I mean, what happened in the story is realistic. Just because they're struggling to make changes (repeating themselves), doesn't mean it's bad writing.

    Basic Dickhead June 22, 2024 1:06 am
    in my og comment i said i get not being perfect meaning i don't actually expect anyone to be this straightforward just that this plot keeps going in circles pleantly of pwople feel the same way i do.ik you read... Weenie5

    "it's not that deep bro"

    Uh well of course, this is fiction lmao but wow, would it hurt to have a discussion? (especially so when it's related to something people care about).
    Saying that won't help your argument, in fact, I think you literally missed the point of the discussion.

    The discussion isn't just about "lol horny furries bl", but it's taking one aspect of the stories and have a discussion around it.

    Eg, story about a couple, but the female lead is too insecure cus of her looks so she wants to do plastic surgery

    Discussion: readers talk about the pressure of beauty standard


    Yeah.

    Weenie5 June 22, 2024 4:25 am
    "it's not that deep bro"Uh well of course, this is fiction lmao but wow, would it hurt to have a discussion? (especially so when it's related to something people care about). Saying that won't help your argumen... Basic Dickhead

    guys "basic dickhead " is upset i never said you couldn't do that at all if you look at the way that other person is talking to me simply because i disagreed with them of course im going to say its not that deep

    hachi leaf June 22, 2024 6:01 pm

    @Weenie5 can't reply to you mayhaps you've already run away but here

    now you're just being an asshole. you're the one who came here and replied under my comment and you're the one saying we're the ones who are bothered?

    Weenie5 June 22, 2024 6:52 pm
    @Weenie5 can't reply to you mayhaps you've already run away but herenow you're just being an asshole. you're the one who came here and replied under my comment and you're the one saying we're the ones who are b... hachi leaf

    @hachi leaf i never actually attacked you or anything like that you just took my comment the wronge way bye bye!

    Basic Dickhead June 23, 2024 5:58 am
    plus making a character that's insecure immediately be confident and proactive after one instance is bad writing lmao it's like you're writing a character's actions for the sake of it and not because that chara... hachi leaf

    what a roundabout way of saying to dismiss my point completely, none of arguments are talking about how op disagreed with you, I simply want to argue about your first comment and how you relate it to your relationship "me and bf talk so communication should settle everything!!" LMAO @weenie5

    You blocked me or sum LOL

    Weenie5 June 23, 2024 4:10 pm
    what a roundabout way of saying to dismiss my point completely, none of arguments are talking about how op disagreed with you, I simply want to argue about your first comment and how you relate it to your relat... Basic Dickhead

    @basic dickhead its like you are willlingly avoiding that i keep bringing up that i said i get not everyone being perfect in my first comment and thats pretty funny i dont wanna argue and theres nothin u can do about it

    Basic Dickhead June 24, 2024 12:36 am
    baseline here is that not everyone operates like your nor how you act with your partner. don't be dense, it's not hard to understand. "it's not that deep" yall the reason media literacy is dying. hachi leaf

    @weenie5 how about you unblock me first lmao, what you said contradicts your point anyway

    > you said "skill issue", ur explanation "i tell my partner if something is bothering me and he does too i get not being perfect but if he just realized talking about it helped a lot then started this again" but it equals to thats "bad writing and going in circles"

    Struggling doesn't just mean they don't understand tf u mean, but also sticking to it, right? That's what you meant when you claim that "i get not being perfect".

    But that's what happens irl, people may understood each other but actually struggle to apply it, thats why some couples "going in circles" but how tf does that equal to bad writing? That's what I wanna argue with you.

    but you blocked me and dismissed everything LOL