Random Question...

Takishimalathy February 20, 2017 6:59 pm

Ok so , if you wake up to your lover/partner having sex with you , without your consent( because you were sleeping ). How do you feel about that ?

Responses
    Ducks are Nice February 20, 2017 7:24 pm

    I'd fu*king slap them. Although they are my lover, that's considered rape and they need to understand boundaries. After that, I'd have a talk with them about why they were doing that, if they understood that it was bad, and what we could've done to prevent something like that happening again. If they believe too strongly that what they did was justified then I'd break up with them.

    9234 February 20, 2017 7:28 pm

    Pretty pissed off honestly. It'd be like they betrayed my trust and didn't care about me enough to ask for consent or to wait until I was awake. They'd also be a bit of an idiot because I don't think that'd ever work lol. Anyway, if they promised not to do it again I'd probably give them a second chance but if not/ if they tried to justify it then i'd dump them asap

    Anonymous February 20, 2017 7:31 pm

    depends on the couple as well as how explicit the act
    some couples are open to morning blow jobs

    Anonymous February 20, 2017 7:35 pm

    I feel like that would depend heavily on the intimacy of the couple and the trust between them. I've dated someone where I held strict boundaries between them because it wasn't too serious of a relationship. Honestly I just wasn't that into him. But the partner I have now is a different story because we have a more intimate and direction driven relationship. It can spice things up, it's not everyone's cup of tea of course, but I really like and enjoy my partner that we have mutual boundaries and can tell where each of us would draw the line.

    Anonymous February 20, 2017 7:55 pm

    if we didn't agree that ir's ok to do that i would be pissed and scared.
    it's creepy and sick if you don't have someones consent even if you are lovers

    Anonymous February 20, 2017 7:56 pm
    if we didn't agree that ir's ok to do that i would be pissed and scared.it's creepy and sick if you don't have someones consent even if you are lovers @Anonymous

    and i would brake up

    RainbowPasta February 20, 2017 8:26 pm

    First of all, that's disgusting. People don't go aroung fucking unconscious.
    Secont, that's rape. You know the original story of sleeping beauty? The Prince had sex with Aurora wile she was sleeping, and that's a story made for spreading morale and showing children the dangers of the world. It doesn't matter if you are in a relationship with that person or not, if it's a prince, if it's a god, if it's a salesman, it's rape.
    I personally think that even waking up your partner with a kiss (with tongue) is weird.
    I'd scream, break up, and kick my ex outta my house

    RainbowPasta February 20, 2017 8:27 pm
    First of all, that's disgusting. People don't go aroung fucking unconscious. Secont, that's rape. You know the original story of sleeping beauty? The Prince had sex with Aurora wile she was sleeping, and that's... RainbowPasta

    *fucking unconscious people

    Anonymous February 20, 2017 8:38 pm

    That is rape, just because you are lovers doesn't mean they are free to have sex with you whenever they want. I would break up with them.

    LessThanThree February 20, 2017 8:42 pm
    First of all, that's disgusting. People don't go aroung fucking unconscious. Secont, that's rape. You know the original story of sleeping beauty? The Prince had sex with Aurora wile she was sleeping, and that's... RainbowPasta

    Actually, there are cases. I know of a woman who woke up and her husband was having sex with her.

    teehee February 20, 2017 9:10 pm

    Well does your question include foreplay ? I mean just shoving it in or riding him first you need to touch him or her right .And if you just start to ride or shove it in his or her sleep that's just rude man PS how horny are you .To me it's quite impossible because I can wake up with a single touch.and if he or she is arousing me first with the kiss and stuff then it all depends if I want it or not .And different people like different things and have different kind of relationship .Not every relation is the same some can get aroused while your partner is trying to have sex with you and some can get angry.

    Takishimalathy February 20, 2017 9:49 pm

    Ok so I was reading this random fanfiction where the main character had sex with his partner in they're sleep. So that got me wondering what other people think about that . Me personally I believe it all depends on my relationship with my partner. Like it all depends if I trust him with myself and my well-being . I mean if he's like some absolutely self centered guy who only has his well-being in mind ,and we don't really like talk about ourselves, then I wouldn't want him touching me in my sleep . But yeah I do believe if I have that attraction and trust in someone who's thoughtful about me , I don't think I would mind waking up to that, you know ?

    Takishimalathy February 20, 2017 9:50 pm
    Well does your question include foreplay ? I mean just shoving it in or riding him first you need to touch him or her right .And if you just start to ride or shove it in his or her sleep that's just rude man ... teehee

    Yes !! definitely includes foreplay lol

    Takishimalathy February 20, 2017 9:59 pm
    First of all, that's disgusting. People don't go aroung fucking unconscious. Secont, that's rape. You know the original story of sleeping beauty? The Prince had sex with Aurora wile she was sleeping, and that's... RainbowPasta

    Well yeah I understand how some people could feel that way about it, that's why I asked the question. But some people do go around fucking people unconscious it's a pretty well known link lol. And I know they're a lot of people who are suffering from somnophilia , and I wonder if they discuss that with their partner before they get with them or something, but yeah I don't think it's disgusting though . I just think there needs to be rules about it .

    Ducks are Nice February 20, 2017 10:00 pm
    Yes !! definitely includes foreplay lol Takishimalathy

    What kind of fanfiction was it? Like the shipping and stuff.

    Takishimalathy February 20, 2017 10:00 pm
    Well yeah I understand how some people could feel that way about it, that's why I asked the question. But some people do go around fucking people unconscious it's a pretty well known link lol. And I know they'r... Takishimalathy

    *kink

    kaye February 20, 2017 10:02 pm

    well, it's nothing to be pissed about since it's your lover crav'n on you, ain't that sweet??

    RainbowPasta February 20, 2017 10:18 pm
    Well yeah I understand how some people could feel that way about it, that's why I asked the question. But some people do go around fucking people unconscious it's a pretty well known link lol. And I know they'r... Takishimalathy

    It is indeed a pretty famous kink. Idk why. I mean, I know that in manga when you look at your crush'es sleeping face you get all like "doki-doki" but sincerely, people don't get all that pretty wile sleeping lol. They're mostly with their mouths opened, drooling and pretty weird (that's me btw, yeah it sucks).
    Also, wouldn't it be a hella weird sex if your partner simply doesn't move? Just stays there like a dead fish? (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    kaye February 20, 2017 10:20 pm
    well, it's nothing to be pissed about since it's your lover crav'n on you, ain't that sweet?? kaye

    On second thought no thanks.

    teehee February 20, 2017 10:52 pm
    Yes !! definitely includes foreplay lol Takishimalathy

    Well that's alright then isn't it .If you want to do it do it have fun .Sex is fun, sex Is good as long as both of them want it (=・ω・=)