I see where you are going, but it's quite the opposite here. Fl didn't love him before, she didn't even know him or his existence, so she didn't have to know his circumstances, but its different to not know how your girlfriend, fiance or spouse is being treated by your own parents. There's another manhwa that shows this exact thing, but also another ml like this one. Not to know how your parents treat your beloved is already telling that you don't care about them and you are negligent of that person. And the women don't have as much power as the men, even if the men can check the situation inside the household by the reports the servants give, a women's power can't go beyond the household. That's why they say the women rule inside the household and the men take care of the business(politics). That's why women represent the house( they always need to hold up to the name, the way they dress shows the power of the house and how well the husband takes care of them)
This reminds me of the last chapter of Hunger Games, where SPOILER…
They want the capitol children to fight like what the tributes did in the past as like an act of revenge or something. I hate that they made the ML like this (like I said before, they could have made him realize all this sht during the early stages of their romance), like there’s really a big plot hole to all those years that Anette and him didn’t connect.
ML’s fault is he was expecting more from FL, he idolized her and got disappointed in the end.
FL’s fault is ignorance.
I dunno, it’s really trying hard to make us hate and love ML at the same time but gone wrong. I still love these kinds of stories.
Anyways, if the roles are reversed, if it was the ML who was ignorant of his parents wrongdoings and FL was the one taking revenge and has a tortured past. Will you be hating the FL or ML because he’s too stupid and privileged?