None of us here seems interested in debate. I'm definitely not. Well, if you think Asexuality isn't any "real" category, go ahead. Nobody here is h3LL bound on making you believe that it is.
Looking at the comments though. I don't think anyone is offended. They're genuinely trying to explain how they feel. If you don't agree, you don't have to. It's ok to disengage from this conversation.I can see that not everyone can understand and that's alright. You cannot force a person to understand your point of view.
Again thank you so much for the answer and for taking your time. Your example of gay people really help a lot to understand how it goes. Also thank you for being open, it nice to se that (at least almost) the comments were really good and a conversación started. And i do also like Henrry Cavill n.n
Thanks for your answer hearing from asexual people makes things more clearer. I also will continue to read, in order to learn more, but it helps a lot when people share their experiences n.n
Oh gosh this is exactly what I felt! All the thing that you are describing? Everything fit to the T. I thought I was the only weird one.
I'm an asexual girl. People often mistake Asexuality as a trauma response or impotence. Actually it's not, it’s a sexuality and just like homosexual people naturally get sexually aroused by people of same sex, Asexual people don't get sexually aroused by anybody. However, that doesn’t mean they can't get arroused at all. Their biological function is similar to any healthy human being.
Here's a few things to clear up some common misinformation -
Asexual people CAN ejaculate.
CAN have s*x with their Heterosexual or Homosexual partner (speciaally if they're not Aromantic as well. Some are Hetero-romantic/Homo-romantic/Bi-romantic and have s*x with their partner who might not be Asexual, for various reasons like wanting to connect with them, wanting to make them feel good/make themselves feel good, reproduce etc. Yes, some Asexual people Do Have S*x to feel good.)
CAN reproduce naturally.
CAN masturbate (watch p0πn and get aroused)
They might or might not have aversion towards s*x.
Asexual people CAN still find other people with certain physical appearance attractive (just like a piece of art or art style is appreciated)