honestly asking chat gpt or going on character ai is better than asking on a porn site, lol. everyone here are not ppl you want advice for stuff like that.
Ive already tried that and i know what kind of people are here. I just want to know everyone's different perspective
I would say u might have some trust issues from perhaps when u were younger
It’s time to move on.
First of all, this is not the thread for this type of topic.
Second of all, find a hobby. Find a passion outside of a person. Remove yourself from situations with the person you like as much as possible, don't answer the questions about their relationship advice, etc. it's not your problem anymore, live and let them live. Remember everything here is finite, and at the end of the day, in the grand scheme of things, the universe and all, your feelings are so small you might as well not give a fuck about them.
Porn site? Seriously? Dude way to degrade artists and their work. Go cry in a corner if you have nothing better than do than this.
if it really hurts, you don’t have to hang out with them until you feel like you’re ready and moved on. also, bottling up isn’t healthy. you should find a friend or someone to share your feelings with; it might lift a little weight off of you. if all goes to shit, just read more bl and cry that’s what I do! ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I really want to move on and erase him from my life but i can't because he is part of the band in our church and i always see him every saturday and sunday (my parents are devotees)
Thank you
I so badly want to tell someone about this but i have severe trust issue always overthinking "what if they spread a rumor" and stuff.
Anyway, thank you for the advice i really appreciate it
“First of all” you’re on an illegal website buddy. Know your place and when to stfu.
Don't worry too much! I have been there once. I was unable to get over that person so much that it felt impossible. They felt so much like a part of me that trying to get over them felt like throwing my insides. However, it has been years since I got over them. So you would be able to do. Please focus on something else than them. For me, I spent my time with my studies and anime! Please love yourself more. Love yourself more than anyone else and you will know what's better for you. Also, try to get out of your comfort zone. You can try to open up by telling your loved ones how you feel and how much you appreciate them.( family or friends before you do to your crush).
hii i also struggled with this when i was in school. What i did was js leave it be, i tried to distance myself from both of them but ofc it wouldnt be much effective since theyll eventually question why ur avoiding them(if ur close) so i reccoment js leaving it beee. go w the flow i think youll eventually move on bcs thats what happened to me. Try to find new interests or hobbies thatll make u forget abt the person(づ￣ ³￣)づ
Thank you very much
Thank you
im just pointing out that most if not all mangas/manhwas on here are pure smut, not trying to degrade their work because they draw way better than i could ever dream of lol.
Im the type of person that when j like someone id keep it to grave and rather die than confess unless they found out without me telling them and im also don't like telling anyone about my personal feelings i have a habit of bottling it all up.
So the situation is i always end up one sided admiration and right now im secretly admiring someone for about a year now without telling that person or anyone else. Then one day i found out that my classmate and that person are dating then my classmates asked for advice about thier relationship.
I really struggled keeping a smile while they tell me the story of how lovely dovey then are. It's like my heart is being stabbled over and over again.
Can anyone tell me a good way to make this feelings go away