If Mom getting a new husband and daughter, it actually is more reassuring... like, so the ...

Knkz97 June 13, 2024 5:38 am

If Mom getting a new husband and daughter, it actually is more reassuring... like, so the mother doesn't have to be alone anymore while youngguk is in seoul, and a having a man protecting a single mom is such a good thing.... I really hope she entrr her romance era. Would love to see youngguk's reaction thoo. Aaaaahhhh I CANT WAITTT

Responses
    NekoNeko June 13, 2024 5:41 am

    What year is it.... A woman can protect herself

    SUPPYTISUP June 13, 2024 5:47 am
    What year is it.... A woman can protect herself NekoNeko

    Ahahaha I'm sure they didn't mean it like that.

    Knkz97 June 13, 2024 5:52 am
    What year is it.... A woman can protect herself NekoNeko

    My goodness.... one, single, alone, and aged woman. Sure she can do many things herself, but goodness, won't it help having someone by your side to help with things, relieve you from loneliness, and made herself and her son feel secure? Aside from "protecting herself" this can also deals with her loneliness. Having a lot of person to love just means more happiness. How can you be so narrow-minded... I'm not talking about how weak his mother is, but if I, myself, left my single mother ALONE to go to the city, I would worry a lot about her. A lot of what-if's will apprear in my head.

    What if :
    1. She collapses for whatever reason and bo one knows???
    2. She is sick but no one by her side, and she didn't want to tell so it wont trouble me?
    3. She is so lonely but can only endure
    4. She is so tured but always says she is not
    5. She developes a new illnesses, like back pain, sore knees, etc?? I mean she is getting older after all.

    Won't you, as a daughter/son have such worries??

    Knkz97 June 13, 2024 5:57 am
    My goodness.... one, single, alone, and aged woman. Sure she can do many things herself, but goodness, won't it help having someone by your side to help with things, relieve you from loneliness, and made hersel... Knkz97

    Let alone, who knows if some weird, bad people is after their mom?? Like, you won't be so sure that you are so lucky you won't get that??? A house with a single woman in it has been proven to be easier to be the target of crimes, don't you know that??

    I know this is just a manhwa, but I always think that the author is being realistic by their choice, whenever she gets a new liver or not. And have their own reasons. I, supports her mother getting new one cuz I can see the reasons, aside from her possibly falling in love with him.

    aetherization June 13, 2024 6:23 am
    Let alone, who knows if some weird, bad people is after their mom?? Like, you won't be so sure that you are so lucky you won't get that??? A house with a single woman in it has been proven to be easier to be th... Knkz97

    Fr people love to say they don't need anyone in their life and that's just crazy humans are social creatures, aside from the points you've written above which I heavily agree with, we can literally die just from loneliness and heartbreak it's insane how fragile we are. It's reassuring to have someone we can depend, to anchor as when we feel like we're drifting apart

    specird June 13, 2024 6:51 am
    What year is it.... A woman can protect herself NekoNeko

    strong independent woman can be lonely too

    NekoNeko June 13, 2024 7:11 am
    My goodness.... one, single, alone, and aged woman. Sure she can do many things herself, but goodness, won't it help having someone by your side to help with things, relieve you from loneliness, and made hersel... Knkz97

    Are we reading the same thing? As you can see, she lives in a close community that supports each other. She isn't alone and she definitely doesn't look lonely and seeing her son success filled her with self fulfillment and happiness. Even in the past life before she died, she died happy seeing her son success...

    You're the one narrow minded, someone to love doesn't necessarily need to be a lover, it can be your friends, community and even pets

    Although she lives alone, she lives in an are with a tight community and knows each other, she is safe as long as she is within her community

    Answers to what if
    1. She works everyday at the fish market, if she wasn't on her spot without notifying anyone, her neighbors will check on her
    2. She isn't sick yet and the MC knew what future sickness she will have and can prevent it from happening
    3. Lonely?
    4. She works as a hobby, MC obviously send her money but she continue to work for her own mental health. She is still at a working age and doing nothing will bored her to death especially when she did hard labor all her life, she will feel listless not doing anything. honestly even retired people look for something to work on
    5. Unlike in the past where her family is poor, she no longer need to push her body to the limit and MC will force her to regular check up

    And as an Asian myself, living with my parents after getting married is perfectly normal

    Knkz97 June 13, 2024 8:59 am
    Are we reading the same thing? As you can see, she lives in a close community that supports each other. She isn't alone and she definitely doesn't look lonely and seeing her son success filled her with self ful... NekoNeko

    We are reading the same thing, yes. But we have a very different take in this. I knoe she lives in a close community, BUT they still don't live together WITH her. If spmething happens who know how long will it take for others to actually realize what happen to her if it's happen late at night?? In the end they are still a stranger, and from her mother personality I bet she won't say anythinh even to the neighbors if she did have some illness.

    I never said it is weird if they live together after marriage, I am an asian myself and I know that very well. But youngguk IS WORKING out there, out of town. She may not be pushing herself like she did in the past but can neighbor really ease her loneliness like a family/husband did? I mean I'm not forcing her to get a husband, I just think it would be nice for her if she had someone by her side.

    Youngguk did know about the future but remember, he is still busy. I know he will definitely make time for his mother but he won't be by her side always. If I was youngguk I would be very happy and reassured to see my mom is happy with a new father that can take care of her.

    Do you really think just because she acts fine, that doesn't means she can't feel lonely that her only family is out of town? I'm sure its just not potrayed here as she is not that lonely, she kept herself busy and had friends (neighbors).

    I wonder why are people insisting that its better for her to stay as she is, IF she can get new family member?? If she doesn't want to and the author decides "nope" then it's fine too for me. I never INSIST that she MUST HAVE A NEW HUSBAND. I just said IT WOULD BE NICE.

    NekoNeko June 13, 2024 9:10 am
    We are reading the same thing, yes. But we have a very different take in this. I knoe she lives in a close community, BUT they still don't live together WITH her. If spmething happens who know how long will it ... Knkz97

    That's not how you phrase it in your post, you said it like a single mom needed someone to depend on which doesn't sit right with me.

    Knkz97 June 13, 2024 9:13 am
    We are reading the same thing, yes. But we have a very different take in this. I knoe she lives in a close community, BUT they still don't live together WITH her. If spmething happens who know how long will it ... Knkz97

    I don't think I'm the one narrow minded as I think about further consequences if she continues to be alone for a long time. Friends have their own live, pets cannot actually do much for you aside from mental support. I'm being open minded on the fact that she may get a new husband and think that its a nice thing to have. You are narrow minded as you look like you are opposed on the mother having someone close to her to keep an eye on here. I wonder why? She is getting older. As much as she does things as hobby it wouldn't be bad to have someone help her. My mom can handle thing by herself but always expresses how happy it is if I helped her with cooking, cleaning etc. And she is happy if she is sick and have my father to take care of her. Being taken care of felt good. Its good if there are someone else that can love her as much as tiungguk does. That means her happinesss multiplies.

    I think even the author do have some intention on making her have bew husband in introducing that man and showing how she shows some interest on him.

    Knkz97 June 13, 2024 9:53 am
    That's not how you phrase it in your post, you said it like a single mom needed someone to depend on which doesn't sit right with me. NekoNeko

    I used "if" okay? And "hope" not "must". I didn't wrote she need to depend on someone, i said it's MORE REASSURING to have someone by her side. And, what's wrong with having to depend on someone? It's a good thing to have. Having a person tou can depend on means you're not alone and you will always feel sexure that someone will always be there for you IF there's thing younneed help with. Why are you so opposed with the mother having someone to depend on??

    No one here ever said having someone to depend on equals being weak. Strong and independent people also need to have a play or person she can depend on so she can stay strong, or she will break eventually. I have someone like that, living for 30 years alone and independent but she got super lonely and sad despite having friends and pets. She got depression and got much better once she found someone that loves her (yes she get married and is so happy ever since)

    Knkz97 June 13, 2024 9:55 am
    I used "if" okay? And "hope" not "must". I didn't wrote she need to depend on someone, i said it's MORE REASSURING to have someone by her side. And, what's wrong with having to depend on someone? It's a good th... Knkz97

    Sorry for so many typos tho, and I mean place not play, Inthink my weird auto correct is acting up again.