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I'm drawn to these by the mc's personality. Not their gender. I don't like harem in general but when I was feeling it out, I was mostly drawn to men bc they just dive right into it (Confidence wise). I also read one with a fm mc and i also like it because of her personality. Besides, I feel like most authors write girls as shy and timid in harem troupes (or in general) so I try to avoid those as much as possible. (Which I hate cause their everywhere). I still hate harem no matter the gender, I'm only here bc I keep seeing this pop up and I wanted to try and feel it out before deciding if I liked it or not.

Eh I think most decent people don’t like harems in general when the harem members are hopelessly in love with mc and doesn’t explore love themselves …regardless of gender

Omg same like its the personality for me too. There r some male mc harems where mc acts like they nervous too much and acts like they don't want it and its nit good yo be with others but in the end they do it with multiple women like i hate that act for both male and female mc. Just admit and show off and enjoy be proud if ur hareem relation if all are okay with it *if ita cheating plot i dont like it tho* here the fl is acting shy, pure, innocent and tbh like an airhead type just aint it for me. If it was just at the start after she lost memories then sure by ethical standards it wld seem weird but now she's more open to the thot of her having multiple men so i dont see the reaaon why she wld still act like she never been with a guy or two already when she with her new memories is already experiencing it and is okay with it ....I'd wish for her to just act bold and accept the fact she wants all her men and wanna fck em simply

Right?! Even till this day I'm still looking for a bold, straightforward fmc, I'm not sure why authors portray females as shy and timid. Like, is that the type of woman they like?? (Or prefer). And whenever there is a bold or straightforward fmc the plot goes nowhere. And all of a sudden the mc isn't bold anymore.

THAT fr and if flmc does become bold they'll be excessive dominant but its not even a good dominating female but those toxic ones who'd end up hurtung the male leads :) like why bruh? Its like either they make halfassed innocent flmc or they make toxic flmc i haven't found a decent reverse harem smut mch i think one i have read some time ago was a lil better but the fl after being with multiple man stayed with only one guy at tge end so was disappointed a lil

Ur fr my twin