Why does everyone think only Fl life matter??

99crazyb June 9, 2024 11:40 pm

i don't get it, why it's alright for him to sacrifice his life for her but it's not okay if it's the other way around ?? she's not the only one who has life??? it's not like he's the only one who loves her? also it's not like she's being forced or anything like that, he didn't even holding her back???

it's weird yk, if u want someone to love u 100% then u have to love them 100% too, u can't love someone 50% & expect them to love u 100%? who r u? God? even God gives more than He receives, self-centered much

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    helvetica June 10, 2024 2:42 pm

    Not really? She’s in a completely different world and she chose to stay because she realized that the ml was ready to give all 100% of him, and that she also wants to give him her 100% even if she doesn’t go back to her world.

    I think we’re all desensitized to these types of stories because every character always stays in the new world without much fuss, but truly leaving everything behind, and throwing away all your hard work, is something incredibly difficult to do. She had people who cared for her, she had a career she dedicated her life to. Her old world WAS her 100%

    However, realizing that they were really ready to plummet to their deaths to try to reach the other world, the nonsense of it all, it didn’t matter since they were together. Mc realizes that what she truly wants in that moment is to be with him, and she chooses to stay with him, showing him the same unconditional love he was showering her with.

    Ml knows what she’s leaving behind and how much of a sacrifice this is for her, and that’s why he wants to give her everything. She in turn is also ready to give him her everything(her everything being her old world and herself)

    For one, if they did go to the other world, mc was ready to take care of him, even if he would have to learn a new language and culture. This is similar to how ml is treating her, supporting her in a new world.

    Again, leaving a world you’ve lived for so long in is one of the biggest sacrifices one can make. It isn’t like other stories where the main character was treated badly or didn’t have much to live for, so they welcomed the new world. Mc was at the height of her life and it was all through her own hard work.

    She’s not only sacrificing her old world, but also the time she’s spent on it. Just as someone who’s almost finished their own schooling session, I would personally feel horrible if all my records were destroyed and I had to start from scratch. Yes, I may have the experience, but it’ll still take time, and time is a very limited thing for humans

    Thanks for listening to my Ted talk lol

    Drowsy June 10, 2024 6:29 pm
    Not really? She’s in a completely different world and she chose to stay because she realized that the ml was ready to give all 100% of him, and that she also wants to give him her 100% even if she doesn’t g... helvetica

    amazing rebuttal and well dissected enjoyed reading this comment sm op love u have an amazing life

    helvetica June 10, 2024 9:58 pm
    amazing rebuttal and well dissected enjoyed reading this comment sm op love u have an amazing life Drowsy

    I hope everybody including op has a nice cold pillow to lay on tonight, even if we have differing opinions lol

    99crazyb June 12, 2024 12:15 am
    Not really? She’s in a completely different world and she chose to stay because she realized that the ml was ready to give all 100% of him, and that she also wants to give him her 100% even if she doesn’t g... helvetica

    sorry, what is "not really"? the fact that both of their life matters? or ???(sorry, my English sucks, i can't really get it)

    the problem is i see everyone was like "he should go to her world bla bla bla", like his life as a duke is nothing, like- why? he's ready to do the same too, he also has his own life bfr she came?? so why? or bcs he doesn't have a family so it's okay if he leaves his life? bcs it doesn't seem difficult for him so it's okay? bcs his achievements are not visible even tho we all know he's a duke & leaving his life is the same as abandoning his responsibility towards his ppl??? or bcs he's a man??
    Idk why ppl think he should be the one to sacrifice his life, no one should sacrifice their life but if one has chosen then that's it.. whatever the reason, she was the one who chose to stay & ml realized that it was a difficult decision so he tried to make her not regret choosing him although I'm sure he knows whatever he does can't really replace her "life" there. but ppl who are annoyed & don't agree with her decisions make it seem like his life isn't that important so he should just make the sacrifice like-WHYYY??? & did u guys forget how she ends up in his world?? the same reason why most of the isekai characters stay in their new world..

    don't get me wrong, i'm fine with ppl wanting him to go to her world or separate & live each in their own world.. i just don't like how some of them make it sounds like he's the bad guy or her decision was stupid u know?

    solanin June 12, 2024 9:00 pm
    Not really? She’s in a completely different world and she chose to stay because she realized that the ml was ready to give all 100% of him, and that she also wants to give him her 100% even if she doesn’t g... helvetica

    clocked them w this one ty

    helvetica June 13, 2024 6:50 pm
    sorry, what is "not really"? the fact that both of their life matters? or ???(sorry, my English sucks, i can't really get it)the problem is i see everyone was like "he should go to her world bla bla bla", like ... 99crazyb

    lol we were talking about two different things I’m guessing. I thought you were talking about how he was giving her everything and she wasn’t giving enough back(like the title and land and everything else)

    However, I get what you’re saying. Neither of them should have to give up their entire lives for the other. If the ml was the one that joined mc in her world, there would probably also be some people who are disgruntled with that decision. Some people also just want to see the possibilities of what could happen if he did end up in her world instead. So it’s not just from a “fl should get everything” perspective.

    Not to mention, the both of them are willing to give up their world for the other and they’re also both willing to support each other. Whichever one they choose, it all depends on their own happiness. The ml is also in the same situation as the fl. If he did go to her world, she would shower him with everything just as he’s doing to her rn. So either way, the results would be the same, even if he was the one entering her world.

    People aren’t treating his life as more important. They understand the difficulties of the decisions the two have to make and can’t help but wonder what would happen if they made a different choice. It’s like if I had to choose between cake or ice cream. I’ll pick the ice cream, but the idea of cake will be on the back of my mind and I kinda want to eat that too. However, that doesn’t mean I don’t like the ice cream I’m eating either. People can like two options at the same time and voice how they feel.

    From what I read, people aren’t saying he should sacrifice his whole life for her. They are just talking about the possibilities as well as what a waste for her previous life to be thrown away. They would do the same if ml left his world. The possibilities of how the conflict would end and how much of a waste that his title and nobility will be lost. Ml is already shown to be willing to make the same sacrifice for fl. Nobody is saying he’s selfish for making fl stay.

    Again, they’re both in the same position so one of them sacrificing their world for the other doesn’t outweigh the other.

    Also, to reiterate, my first response was based off the notion that you were angry that the ml was giving everything to the fl after she decided to stay.

    kaz June 24, 2024 10:48 am
    Not really? She’s in a completely different world and she chose to stay because she realized that the ml was ready to give all 100% of him, and that she also wants to give him her 100% even if she doesn’t g... helvetica

    you ate

    lo ꪆৎ June 26, 2024 2:11 am
    Not really? She’s in a completely different world and she chose to stay because she realized that the ml was ready to give all 100% of him, and that she also wants to give him her 100% even if she doesn’t g... helvetica

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