First couple was amazing and I loved them but the second couple… why is this enabling him? Like yes, he’s working now but he learnt absolutely nothing else. No life skills, no interpersonal developmental skills, no soft skills, nothing. He can do basic chores (which even my 4 year old cousins can help out with) and he can do basic waitering. Those don’t teach him independence or responsibilities. Those are things he should have learnt as a young child. I 100% blame the parents but as soon as he became an adult, it became his own duty to learn. I hate it when people enable others to do bare minimum and get praise and respect. It’s not respectable to do bare minimum. That’s your basic duty as an able bodied/minded human…
First couple was amazing and I loved them but the second couple… why is this enabling him? Like yes, he’s working now but he learnt absolutely nothing else. No life skills, no interpersonal developmental skills, no soft skills, nothing. He can do basic chores (which even my 4 year old cousins can help out with) and he can do basic waitering. Those don’t teach him independence or responsibilities. Those are things he should have learnt as a young child. I 100% blame the parents but as soon as he became an adult, it became his own duty to learn. I hate it when people enable others to do bare minimum and get praise and respect. It’s not respectable to do bare minimum. That’s your basic duty as an able bodied/minded human…