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This whole story is not supposed to be realistic. The characters don't behave as real people, at times, there are some kinda real- world problems, but at the end , it is fantasy, supposed to stay as fantasy. Nobody promised a masterclass in BDSM, the characters are not trying to form part of the BDSM community. This is not a manual on how to handle YOUR bdsm life. The author doesn't have a responsibility to present medical facts of sex education. You are supposed to be of age and maturity to get your own sex education.