I don't know what's going on with these manhwas lately. I don't like the ukes. Why go to y...

I don't know. I feel a lot of this has to do with the fact Sun feels he needs to show a specific outwardly appearance to both his peers and his own perception of himself
So he forced himself to do these things because he thinks it's the only way for him as well as others to see him in a specific light, like him getting over it. People tend to do things that are emotionally damaging, simply because they want the rest of the world to believe they r OK. ╥﹏╥

But it's detrimental to him and those involved with him. So in the end what was the point? Better yet was it worth it? Besides he still has feelings for the jerk anyway and now he's projecting or at best once again tying to prove he's "moved" on using another's body. On the day of ex's wedding in which he failed to prove anything positive.

Easy there...(〜￣△￣)〜
Each person has their own way to deal with things.
It's just his own way, u know..
Eventhough it went in vain, at least he was trying.
Maybe if he were you, you'd get over with it quickly, but he's not.

And in fact, lots of people do this kind of thing too.
More than to prove that they are move on.
To state that even if some things won't come to our favor, life still must go on, whatever how heartbreaking they might felt.

A M E N

Exactly, if Sun hwa was fine with living his life in the house making movies about sunbae, then he didn't have to prove shit to anyone, and his friends and classmates were actually concerned about him, go visit him at home, fuck that wedding

I don't know about you, but to me moving on is to confront the past and the people of your past head on and show that you happy in your current life even after all their shit. it's not easy, but it better then to run away from them and live in their shadow.
I agree the Uka in this cause didn't move on, but that only cause of the scene of the "look" the groom gave him. Actually, his move of coming to this wedding is very brave for a guy who suffer so much that he had to drop out of school. I don't think he rape him either since he seem very into him even before going to his house, and there is something more in this that has happen that we don't know. but I don't think he drop out of school for no reason!!
and that other guy that said all this crap in the bathroom with the glasses, he have a really big problems if he think our Uka have it better after dropping out of school!! so fuck him, he just an asshole!
actually I find this work very interesting.

I do get that...That's why I said to me. I just feel like why prove anything in the first place? The fact that you're thinking about proving you've moved on, means you haven't.
╮(￣▽￣)╭ It still affects you cause you feel you have to prove something. And in his case he doesn't even go out or associate with a anyone (besides the baker now) so that alone proves he's a mess. So in reality. It was a mute point for him. He was never over a damn thing. Lol

Exactly! Lol Why was he out to prove something he knew wasn't over anything at all? The way he lives his life as an otaku kind of said it all. I just found it illogical.

I erase people, especially when they are no good for me. Lol I go on with my life and if we cross paths by coincidence or because of a mutual friend I am fine. Don't lose my cool, or nerves. I am casual and confident. That is how you move on, to me. They don't affect how I interact with society. The uke has let it affect all aspects of his life. He is an otaku. That's proof enough he hasn't moved on at all, but stuck in the past allowing it to affect him. So that is why I find it a mute point when deep down he knows he's a mess and still hung up on sunbae and the past. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I think it depend on the culture and the person himself. and yeas, some people need to confront their past in order to move on, I had a friend like that too that live in the shadow of his past so...yeas. for you I guess it easy to forget people that may hurt you, to others it's not! it all depend on the guy/girl.
in this Uka cause, I think it's about trauma that happen to him that make him drop out of school. and I say it again, trauma you can't just "move on and forget" it will always come back to hunt you, I think that he didn't move on is the trauma he suffer that make him drop out of school and make him hate himself. trauma need Therapy to heal, it not something you can just "move on" from. and of course it let him affect all aspects of his life, that how trauma works! something mast have happen in school that scar him and make him run away.
actually I don't see what so "wrong" in been an otaku, there is nothing wrong in liking anime, manga and other things. it's not about been an otaku, it's more about his Hikikomori [google it if you don't know] psychology problem that can be created by a trauma or other things that happen in his life - he burly can gut out from his house, let alone buy food for fuck sake!! now this is a problem that he need help from someone else. he can't fix it alone, he need someone else to support him. and I hope the baker will help him with that in time.
actually for someone that can't even go out from his house, and suffer when he even try, it was a brave move! even if it hurt him, it still improvement for him then to just keep to run away and keep recycle things from his past again and again. it is better for him even if it hurts #－.－)

Exactly, trauma that you can't move on from warrants therapy from a professional (which he hasn't done)...And when I say otaku I mean a recluse that is losing ability to interact with society. Not the liking manga and anime, cause to me that's fine. =)...Except he did run, didn't he? He broke down and then ran straight to the baker's arms to escape reality and prove that he's fine as long as he can have sex with someone else. O.O Anyway the bottom line to me is this, I will not be reading this. You and everyone else is more than welcome to and I won't be missed. In the end all the uke proved is that he hasn't recovered and the sunbae still has all the power. Enough to make him run, enough to make him cry, enough to make him have sex with someone else to prove a mute point. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I"m not forcing you to read it or anything, don't get me wrong. you free to read what you want, there is nothing wrong in dropping a manga you don't like[I drop KS]
I just don't agree that a guy that suffer from trauma can just "get over it" in one night. [-that would be stupid has fuck!] and you may think going to therapy is easy, but in real life most people that need it, choose not to go or admit they need it! or they go, and the the therapist that suppose to help them, only make them suffer even more from self hate and make the problem worse. so yeas, I don't think this guy who run away from himself can even admit he have a problem to go and treat it! that the thing about him from the start and people in general [he can't go out from the house and he didn't see it has a problem or something that harm him], but the fact he decided to try and confront them in the wedding, by himself is a big improvement. even if it did end up badly, I"m glad he choose to go there even if he only good at running away from himself and the world. yeas he did got hurt, and yeas he would seek something that will help him stand up again and comfort him. there is nothing wrong in been weak!! but it like they say, what hurt you make you stronger ╮(￣▽￣)╭ and that what I take from this.
don't expect the impossible, you can't recover from been Hikikomori in one night! Actually the term otaku, don't mean you lose the ability to interact with people, it the opposite XD. they interact much more with their friends then normal people with their weird hobbies. Otaku basically mean that you a weird person that have a weird hobbies, anime manga etc. nothing about interaction with people. it like you calling someone a nerd and say all nerds luck the ability to interact with people, what is definitely not true at all! XD and Otaku do leave their house, a lot to buy stuff of anime what our Uke could never do! so it's not the fact that he is an Otaku.
that will be Hikikomori much more, cause they are luck the ability to interact with the world around them and they don't want to interact with anyone. and that who our Uke is actually so.....yeas. I actually expect him to run and never leave his house, at last until his self confidence will come back. and even then I doubt he will leave his house or the baker for a while.

to him he's trying to broke the barrier which locks him up in the past, he's trying to be brave so don't talk mean stuff about him, k?. though sometimes I'd though he's chubby or lot of meat, you know expecting him to be skinny but does fine.