hang in there buddy.... hope your mom the best of wishes and health
I hope your Momma wins this battle! Momma's are warriors! As someone who's recently lost their Mom from a long battle. Just hope for the best, but try to prepare for the worst by making some beautiful memories with her now. I tried giving her reasons to keep on fighting. Grandchild accomplishments coming soon in the future. Her fave meals and snacks. Future plans together. Near the end when I could see the weariness from her fighting on her, I would brush her hair like I did when I was small. Cuddles while we watched her favorite shows. Making her favorite cakes and food.
Now that she's gone, it's been tough. I have locks of her hair, some are being made into jewelry, some I placed in the last teddy bear she gave me. I also made a small dress for the bear put of one of her shirts. When it gets really tough, I spritz her fave perfume and cuddle the bear. I also talk to her. It May seem silly, as a grown ass woman to say, I feel her hugging me back. Then I will laugh because I can also hear her yelling at me for being sad. That she always wants me to be happy.
Sorry for the long rant!
Man i couldn't focus anything after he said about his mom, I'm going through a similar situation, and that part really struck me, i never thought of the possibility of losing her, and this gave me a reality check. I don't know why I am saying this here but I'm totally not okay after reading that, i lost my dad recently too , i don't know what to do with my life now