Yeah I don't think people hate Tak just because he's an emotionally stunted asshole with no redeeming quality whatsoever, although than in itself could be enough lmao, it's more likely because he's an ass AND a rapist.
^^^ this exactly
Like i get he's redeeming himself, but it was never the fact that it took him so long to realize his feelings that pisses me off, it was the fact that he was basically treating Sanho like a sex slave with no regard to how he feels. Him not understanding his feelings or that BOTH participants should enjoy sex doesn't make it any less shitty. But this is the mind of story that doesn't treat non-con seriously like that.
The hate for Tak is a bit excessive lol. I know a lot of people may not be fond of this comment but what can I say I love playing devil's advocate lol. For those who don't like spoilers don't read. Going to talk about Tak n Sanho. Also excuse if it seems like I'm rambling at some point. The culprit is horrible insomnia. My sleep patterns are all over the place, lol. Meaning I don't sleep much.
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So... I see all the hate on Tak but to be fair he really doesn't deserve it because we can clearly see the difference in how Tak treats Sanho vs everyone else, which for him is their close friends and his brother/family. Tak's brother also gave an indication of how Tak's personality is no nonsense with back story and the difference in how Tak treats Sanho vs everyone else. Indicating that Tak wouldn't even give Sanho the time of day if there were no feelings involved. I mean if you pay attention Tak tries, in his way and with the best of intentions, to be accommodating by changing his sexual behaviors because Sanho complained. Tak also admits it when Sanho gets mad because Tak doesn't admit he has feelings for him. Tak really had no clue when it came to matters of the heart. The only emotion I observed was frustration with Sanho. (It's a thin line between love and hate, lol).
What everyone need to see is that Tak seems to have some sort of emotional blindness. And it literally takes Tak's twin brother to point out Tak's emotional attachment to Sanho. Pointing out if there wasn't one Tak's personality, normally for him, wouldn't allow a person as annoying as Sanho can be into his space if he had no emotional attachment, especially for as long as it's been. After thinking about it Tak calls Sanho saying he misses him. And you can clearly see Sanho's reactions that it's very out of character for Tak to be so forthcoming with his feelings. Thinking Tak must be drunk lol. But nonetheless Tak asks Sanho to wait for him. Now that I think about it I can't even recall if Tak's sexual experiences was with anyone else besides Sanho. Regardless knoeinf himself Tak has no choice but to see the rationalizations of his brother arguments to ring true. Once he comes to realize his feelings that's when he comes out to his parents immediately without any of the normal fears most guys would have of being hated on. Even after getting knocked upside the head by their father he stands his ground. Then Tak fearlessly comes out to their grandmother again with pretty much no reaction to the events that would stress others out. Then Tak goes straight back to Sanho with no hesitations in his thinkings to bring Sanho back without delay as he seemed to not want to make Sanho wait no longer than necessary.
Could Tak's confession have been more romantic YES! But for his personality type Tak did pretty good. Especially in not dragging the storyline out forever with the typical behaviors of other BL manwha trying to decide how to confess blah blah blah. Then y'all complaint would have been about why he just doesn't communicate his feelings blah blah blah. Lol.
Love it or hate it this is what I believe to be true. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶