Okay I didn’t mean to cause a whole discourse but my problem with this is because being a gay male it just feels weird to be fetishized by women. I understand people find their things to get off too, and that’s cool and all, but it just feels awkward to me. Especially like with living the gay life etc. I understand that mostly women create BL, and I’m glad they do because I like seeing gay representation somewhere, somehow. But it just reminds me of like how women want a gay bsf because they’re gay. That’s all…. Also I wouldn’t necessarily call it perverted because people like what they like, but there’s a lot of perversion in the community of Yaoi.
Yeah honestly I believe the term yaoi itself is a fetishizing term
I still find it weird that women read yaoi/bl it’s kind of strange