He literally was perfect in her eyes for years, its rather hard to just switch drastically. She was 15 when got married, she dreamed of this ‘perfect life/husband’ so pretty obv why she feels jealous…
And she does team up w red haired one ;)
She's not jealous of the red haired prostitute mistress due to emotional reasons, it's just that when one's unable to tell whether it is or isn't one's fault when a relationship isn't working, it happens that seeing someone else (like the redhead) sticking it out with your husband for that long can make you feel like there's more chance that you're the one with the problem, rather than your husband, because it sounds like he is successfully proving it to you that, between you and him, *he* is not the one with the problem, since he's been able to have a good relationship when being with someone else... And habecause the FL so far had no other relationship to compare it to, it was harder to for her be able to tell whether it was or wasn't her fault that things with her husband were not working...
The FL is annoying. She finds it humiliating that her husband is cheating on her, which I can understand. But it's also as if she's jealous. The man hits and beats her for his sexual enjoyment. BDSM is supposed to be enjoyed by BOTH parties involved. When it's just one enjoying it, it crosses the line and can be seen as a form of abuse. It's a very, very thin line. If I were her, I would team up with Lowell and bring down the husband. Make so he can't shoe his face in society. He can be in the gutter, right along with that skank.