I get you. Well here is a non toxic list mostly bl and few gl
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/1273544/
Also my personal favorite comedy fluff manga with some romantic elements
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/maou_jou_de_oyasumi/
Media literacy and self awareness from both authors and their audience is lacking, with that and the influence of comics portraying toxicity previously doing well or being perceived as sensual, authors tend to write or draw more extreme, emotionally low-bar works, being fed into a cycle of toxicity. This applies outside of comics, which still impact comics inadvertently. It's also really easy for anyone to make and post anything, but i dont think thats why, bc its always been that easy.
Why mostly comic getting toxic now days