This here, depicting how true it is that abuse is possible despite one's statures compared the abuser.
I've seen many people questioning big tall men being abused, and their question always, "why? You can fight back with that body of yours"
No, it's not that simple. Violence is not simple. Even in the case of self defence, it is not simple. Third person POV might numb you of the feeling, it can't be explained. But as the first person, raising your hand, to retaliate it's harder than you think it is, harder than it seems in the movies. But if you think violence is as simple as raising your hand and charge as your rage tells you, I beg of you to seek therapist.
And it's even harder when the other person was someone who used to abuse you when you weren't capable of protecting yourself. Or someone you used to love.
This here, depicting how true it is that abuse is possible despite one's statures compared the abuser.
I've seen many people questioning big tall men being abused, and their question always, "why? You can fight back with that body of yours"
No, it's not that simple. Violence is not simple. Even in the case of self defence, it is not simple. Third person POV might numb you of the feeling, it can't be explained. But as the first person, raising your hand, to retaliate it's harder than you think it is, harder than it seems in the movies. But if you think violence is as simple as raising your hand and charge as your rage tells you, I beg of you to seek therapist.
And it's even harder when the other person was someone who used to abuse you when you weren't capable of protecting yourself. Or someone you used to love.