As someone with anxious attachment+avoidant attachment (disorganised attachment is what it's called)
I can understand both povs man, I feel like shit because they're both hurting each other :((((( I hope they can over come this and grow as their own people. You couldn't have phrased it in a better way daddy_chill.
bruh what about his anger issues avoidant boyfriend with crippling anxiety and abusive tendencies? hell nahhhh yall are just lacking comprehension skills if you wanna blame only cirrus
didnt say I blame only cirrus
I mean I could not when this chapter ends with hanuel beating cirrus up
But just saying, it was a matter of time when he (cirrus) would snap.
they are both in the wrong dw
I am really sorry if something doesn't make sense, english is not my first language, maybe I did not convey my thoughts clearly
i mean your og comment kinda implied that all of this is bc of cirrus which would not be fair tbh but okay
One is controlling and the other is distant and violent (because this isn’t the first time Skylar has beat Cirrus).
it was a timed bomb waiting to explode ngl
controlling ahh man with a crippling fear of abandonment actually lashes out of his anxiety and possessiveness (quite real shit, peeps with anxious attachment styles are crazy sometimes)
I am so glad the other mc does not take shit from Cirrus, even tho he is also scarred by a trauma.