i don’t think manhwa writers

will ever understand how to write this trope of mafia boss who is into rough sex and has kinks or whatever but doesn’t rape the mc. like he can be rough with him, whatever, that’s fine, but why does it have to be rape? if he’s so protective of him, why would he want it to hurt without any enjoyment whatsoever? it’s like they try to write this but they always fail and make the bottom hate it. if he was into it it would be sm hotter