I think this is a common misconception and stereotype that is seen in a lot of yaoi. Yes, it is more common for the top to be bigger, but that’s not always the case and romantic relationships tend to start with a mental connection not a physical one, which leaves that part to be random. Some couples also don’t have specific roles that they prefer so they tend to play the role that their partner doesn’t. I think in main stream media being bigger just means being the top, and that’s just not the case. Ultimately, as a consumer of media (like manga), it’s important that you keep in mind that it’s fiction and it’s usually not accurate.
I think he’s just insinuating the stereotype, not that Hyunmin actually believes in the stereotype. He merely thinks it may be more plausible in terms of physical strength. I don’t think he was trying to say “top = bigger”.
Yes, I know. I just explained about it more. I never said anything about them being wrong. They are basically saying the same thing as me; that being big doesn’t ultimately mean being the top and if not it’s insulting.
Oh yes, I meant to reply to the original commenter, oops! ;w; I agree with you as well though!
Of course it's not accurate, it's porn after all,
and i don't care about what is usually accepted in the porn fandom, i just wanna see him getting railed (╬￣^￣)
i'm not only questioning what people take as a norm, but also this fictional character's mentality yes.
(my answers seems kinda rough when i re-read it, but nah, i'm just horny and want that dude obliterated *salute* we are indeed saying the same thing, i don't want the tone of my answer to be misinterpreted as annoyed against you, so better safe than sorry ehhe)
I mean there’s nothing wrong with reading it for any reason. It is a type of entertainment. I don’t think really any type of porn is socially acceptable, but that’s just another problem with society. And I like that you’re honest about why you’re reading it and what you want. Lots of readers tend to lie about that.
Lmk if you need any other good smut recs (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
yeahh things related to sex are often taboo after all, i think religions played a big role in making all of this unacceptable, but come on it's the 21st century i hope people chill out about it soon, it's not that deep
But between bros i hope we can at least be honest yeah, i mean we both know why we're here eheh
And if it's offered on a silver platter like so, please do, i do want some recs~
Yea that would make sense. I think overall it’s becoming more accepted, but with anything related to gay love it’s still frowned upon. Although, even that is changing especially in the younger communities.
Indeed, as it is often the case, the younger generation tends to cut ties with beliefs from the older generations they can't find a use for
(we sound so old wtf)
but i'm glad that things change ever so slowly (not just glad for the porn aspect bwahahah)
One day humanity will have buried its last god
and humans will never be able to use religion to oppress others ever again
BUT ENOUGH ANTHROPOLOGY ON A PORN WEBSITE!!!
ohhhh what a weakling, and saying "i'm bigger than you so i should top" is such a low blow dude~_~
He's so pretty in a leach come on author can't we see him crying and begging just a bit~_~