When conducting such a play you cannot rush in to it and force it. Both parties have to argee and in this case one of them was THREATENED. This is literally rape. Hes sadistic nah more like a rapist lmao. Author does need to do more research because this was so offputting esp when he says, “sighhh im such a sadistic person.” none of that was what he said, it was straight up harrassment
Totally agree, a big problem I have with a lot of bdsm themed stories is that there is most of the time NO AFTERCARE
Which is very important for both the s and m mental (and physical) health!
These stories make it seem like all there is to sm is just one person hurting someone and both of them liking it in a sexual way
People are saying that the author doesn’t know much about sadism but what about it was not sadism? Pain comes in more formats then just physical pain (which he did quite a bit of nipple torture). Humiliation, fear, and teasing are also considered sadism. Which was all portrayed. I’m this sort of sadistic as well. This just also included all kinds of other kinks as well like puppy play, cnc, and public play.