1. i love threesomes, i think they are fucking awesome and i would very much like to be sandwiched between 2 hot man.
2. A doesn't have to have a threesome or a romantic/ sexual relationship with anyone (i'd actually prefer it that way). but if he did have one, anyone, and i mean ANYONE would be a better option than his brother.
3. the brother is in fact hot, (hotter than the actor dudes, i think). he would be a great support character if it wasn't for the incest.
4. A is not a child or some delicate flower. he will not be traumatized for life if he has a one night stand, it's not a big deal. people have sex, because sex feels good, there's nothing weird, bad or "fucked up" about it.
you obviously have a very particular view about A's character (a head cannon tbh) and that's perfectly fine. everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but at the end of the day, forcing an opinion on others, just because you it's the correct one, is never ok, and people WILL be mad and fight back.
also....this has gotten to a point where even my brother (who is completely against drugs, alcohol, smoking, hates loud music and partying) is even calling you an "out dated puritan, with Victorian standards"
so there's that. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Lol. You AND your brother make me laugh. I honestly am too tired to keep repeating myself and if you let my sentiments go over your head, that's on you, not me. I can't keep spoon-feeding anyone common sense.
But I'm just going to address some things very quickly and then I'm done. I apologize in advance if it gets too long. I promise this is the last you'll hear from me.
1. This isn't even about having sex because "sex feels good", like you say. This sounds like the sort of notion only a child or a virgin might have. You act like sex is like a walk in park for everyone just because it is the same for you, but in reality, it isn't.
You claim to love threesomes but you still haven't even engaged in it, which still makes it a fantasy. I fantasize about having threesomes as well but I would think twice before doing it because it might turn out to be a terrible experience at the end of the day if you do it with the wrong people.
"I want to do it because "sex feels good" is cavemen's talk or just ignorant rambling because sometimes, it actually doesn't feel good with the wrong person or even the right person too, especially if you are on the receiving end. Yeah. That happens. You also need to have the heart for it and denying that doesn't change anything. A lot more people would be engaging in orgies, threesomes and polyamorous relationships if it's only about the pleasure you feel when doing it.
I would prefer if A had been shipped with anyone else but his brother, but not with any random person, just because.
4. You seem to have misconstrued my meaning but as I said, I don't like to repeat myself so I'm only going to say this once more and it's up to you to understand it or leave it.
I don't need to have a preconceived idea of A's character or heat cannon as you so charmingly put it, because the author ALREADY has done enough justice to his character for us to know the sort of person he is. He is not fragile, yes, but he also doesn't like to be involved in unnecessary drama as we have all witnessed enough times. Those two would be too chaotic to handle.
If you can't handle his relationship with his brother, what makes you think you can handle threesomes with two strangers he barely even knows, especially since they are all popular in the showbiz? Have you thought about it on a grand scale?
You have said quite a lot but you still haven't told me WHY it is necessary for him to have a threesome with those guys. The only reason why anyone would hold such an opinion after reading this manhua is because they are just smut-crazy fans who once they see a good looking character the next thing in their head is "Oooh, have sex!" "Oooh, a threesome!" "Oooh, an orgy!" How exactly does this advance the plot in anyway? There are enough hentai mangas with little or no plotline to help feed those fantasies. Read them.
On the issue of having an opinion, it's nice that you are fighting for people's right to an opinion, but there's such a thing as having a stupid or dangerous opinion. Whether you want to fight back or not is entirely up to you but that doesn't make it any less stupid. I also had my opinion and decided to share it.
BL characters are not pawns for you to live your dark, twisted fantasies through them. It might be fiction, but the emotions you feel when reading them are real. That's why you laugh when you read something funny and cry when something bad happens to a character you love.
You can call me whatever you like, but I just like to critically analyze things because life is in fact, not a bed or roses for everyone like you might think. Sue me.
Oh, by the way, tell your brother I think he makes a moonless night look bright and if you share the same sentiments as he does, then I believe that a brain-eating bacteria is starving in your skull too.
Toodles.
Correction
It was actually "French Royal puritan" and not Victorian, my bad.
It's not even just the pseudo incest but the brother has creepy, obsessive behavior. That's a no for me. Anyway, I never even took the op as being serious. As in....not something they actually wished to see happen in the story. So watching the turn this took was something else.
I get the feeling that a lot of stuff like this happens from having a wide range of ages interacting together.
exactly, it's really not that sirius, there's nothing we say that will change the story. but yeah, even aside from the incest, logistically A and his brother are just a really bad combo.
there's the obsessiveness, the lying, the stalker-ish behavior, the way he is forcing himself on A when he is very clearly not interested and uncomfortable.
even if they got together they still have the same parents, and if they break up, then he'll just end up standing there with his dick in his hand.
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