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Well said mam
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Sadly a lot of bl is like this, where the top would try and communicate whereas the bottom would run away. Just causes an endless cycle of misunderstandings ಠ_ಠ def agree with you
Like from what I read, when they start to have problems sae runs away and avoids akihito, even tho akihito is consistently trying to communicate. Akihito is doing all the pursuing as well, so why is he the problem, when sae is not communicating?
I get the whole "well akihito doesn't understand the complexities of a gay man struggling to date a straight man," but isn't that just a way to shift all the blame onto akihito? You could very well flip it and say that sae doesn't understand how commitment works when a straight man dates another person. Which sounds ridiculous, right?
All in all, the issue here is communication. Sae lacks communication (which we have seen thru his avoididant tendencies) and I guess akihito can try to constantly reassure him, but again sae would have to open up and tell him about what he feels insecure about so that akihito can understand and change how he acts.
I don't think that akihito is all to blame, I think both are.
I usually don't comment, but these other comments are really confusing me. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧