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æ☆jæ May 4, 2024 12:20 pm

Sohan is really too kind QwQ Maybe he knows his father really is just using him...and I really still am hoping the father starts being a dad and make up for his son but....like..does he even feel guilty?? I wonder if the father truly felt remorse and cares for his son. I am giving him a chance to redeem himself but so far he still seems like shyt to me Σ(  ̄□ ̄||)

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    Willow May 4, 2024 12:31 pm

    Kids who grow up with abusive, emotionally unavailable, self centered parents will usually grow up to be weak to kindness
    He's not too kind
    He just can't help himself from getting drawn to any small amount of kindness. Even if it's just meaningless words, they're words tha he longs to hear.
    Anyway, that's my take from the situation based on my own experience.

    And no, his father's kindness is not real, nor is he plotting to purposely hurt him. He's just so self centered that he doesn't really think he's doing anything wrong. The only thing he's after is his own profit. He doesn't care to even think about anything else.
    Doesn't mean he's any less pathetic though

    namachi May 4, 2024 1:39 pm
    Kids who grow up with abusive, emotionally unavailable, self centered parents will usually grow up to be weak to kindness He's not too kindHe just can't help himself from getting drawn to any small amount of ki... Willow

    YES this is true

    May 4, 2024 2:44 pm
    Kids who grow up with abusive, emotionally unavailable, self centered parents will usually grow up to be weak to kindness He's not too kindHe just can't help himself from getting drawn to any small amount of ki... Willow

    This is exactly how I see it, I don't understand how people can hate on sohan for this

    Willow May 4, 2024 3:01 pm
    This is exactly how I see it, I don't understand how people can hate on sohan for this

    They just can't relate

    …………… May 4, 2024 3:24 pm
    This is exactly how I see it, I don't understand how people can hate on sohan for this

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    æ☆jæ May 4, 2024 5:24 pm
    This is exactly how I see it, I don't understand how people can hate on sohan for this

    Idk but I think I see most people hating on his father and not sohan himself. Personally I don't hate sohan as well. I really like him that I felt sad thinking he might end up hurt by his father again. Thats why I thought he was being too kind to his father even tho he probably knows he's just being used. But well someone already explained with their own personal experience on why sohan is drawn to that. I just don't want sohan to end up getting really hurt again by his father...it makes me sad and kinda annoyed seeing that there are parents who really don't care about their children T__T

    æ☆jæ May 4, 2024 5:38 pm
    Kids who grow up with abusive, emotionally unavailable, self centered parents will usually grow up to be weak to kindness He's not too kindHe just can't help himself from getting drawn to any small amount of ki... Willow

    Aye QwQ thanks for sharing and...that's really sad....I just hope his father won't mentally stress, disappoint or hurt him much more than he used to. And that Sohan and Sihwa can makeup cuz I think Sihwa was really just concerned about him.

    May 4, 2024 6:09 pm
    Idk but I think I see most people hating on his father and not sohan himself. Personally I don't hate sohan as well. I really like him that I felt sad thinking he might end up hurt by his father again. Thats wh... æ☆jæ

    No bc there are some people who can't understand why he's doing what he's doing and being angry at him for it, like he this is literally how he was raised to be, but yeah his parents are so fucking shitty like oh my god even his mom too she's not exempt from this, she literally abandoned him just to have another family where she personally felt happier

    May 4, 2024 6:11 pm
    They just can't relate Willow

    Tbh I can't either, but I've had friends with this type of family and seen how that can change them