im 25 now btw, we broke up that year too bec i got to know hes cheating on me with 3 different girls
that is rape. if you weren't sober enough to give consent, it's rape
Yes. If someone sober tries to sleep with someone under the influence of alcohol it’s rape because the person intoxicated can’t consent.
If you are under the influence then yes (because you were intoxicated like others have said you were unable to consent) I am incredibly sorry that this is how you found out.
but i also got carried away? yes im drunk but i also allowed him. Thats not rape right?
You were drunk, a position where your mind can't give consent. It doesn't matter if you got carried away or if he was your boyfriend, the consent wasn't there. I am sorry you experienced this. :(
Having sex with someone when they are drunk can be rape as they can't consent. If they are too drunk, their ability to give valid consent may be compromised. You said you allowed him did you consent and how drunk were you? This is a complex situauation and while the action could be rape. You are the one to say it was rape or not. The key point to this is whether you the intoxicated person was capable of understanding the situation and freely agreeing. In some cases, engaging in sexual activity with an intoxicated person who cannot give informed consent may be considered rape or sexual assault.
Only you know if you understand what you are doing or if you communicate your wishes to him, and determine if any sexual activity with them may be non-consensual. It gets complex as this goes on what happened, if you consent, and how you feel.
i remember i blacked out and suddenly felt him touching me and then he kissed me when i woke up but i still felt hazy. I really got carried away and just let him do it. Was it considered consent?
No. Not if you’re so drunk that you blacked out for a moment. He’s sober and you’re drunk there is no chance for consent on your end
Thank you. Im glad we broke up
wait. this was rape? i experienced this in my 19, i was also a virgin and my boyfriend jumped on me while im on the influence of alcohol (hes not, he didnt drink) and got carried away. I never considered it rape bec first, hes my boyfriend and second i dont wanna call like i got raped or something