Can ypu imagine if the Priest didn't say that bullshit? That man (jinjoo husband) put her through so much trauma and danger and the priest is saying it's HER job to make the first steps towards forgiveness. (I also don't trust that priest his eyes remind me of the thugs)
Religious trauma is so real. The Religious ties to marriage is also so scary and damaging. Marriage is essentially a contract to love and respect each other until death but if someone breaks a part of the contract they should be allowed to get a divorce.
But certain religions use marriage as an advantage to abuse, cheat, and disrespect their partner, "Yes I'm neglectful and constantly put you in danger but YOU swore to be with me under the eyes of (insert God here)" and it's sad.
Of course not all Religious ppl are like this but there is enough for there to be a pattern in regards to allowing abuse in marriages and condemning the ones who want a divorce. Idk
This is actually so sad. I just want m girls to get some PROPER therapy and heal.
Can ypu imagine if the Priest didn't say that bullshit? That man (jinjoo husband) put her through so much trauma and danger and the priest is saying it's HER job to make the first steps towards forgiveness. (I also don't trust that priest his eyes remind me of the thugs)
Religious trauma is so real. The Religious ties to marriage is also so scary and damaging. Marriage is essentially a contract to love and respect each other until death but if someone breaks a part of the contract they should be allowed to get a divorce.
But certain religions use marriage as an advantage to abuse, cheat, and disrespect their partner, "Yes I'm neglectful and constantly put you in danger but YOU swore to be with me under the eyes of (insert God here)" and it's sad.
Of course not all Religious ppl are like this but there is enough for there to be a pattern in regards to allowing abuse in marriages and condemning the ones who want a divorce. Idk
This is actually so sad. I just want m girls to get some PROPER therapy and heal.