That’s a bit too far considering Woo has definitely spoken about his debt collectors to Seo-an, it’s not like he hid everything, maybe he’s just not ready to get help. He’s someone who had to work by himself and rely on himself, not everyone is able to understand. But I do think he should tell Seo-an, at least when he’s ready and not pressured to.
But then, until how long can Seo-an wait for him to open up? So yeah I can see why Seo-an did it behind his back, I just don’t think it’s right regardless.
Also I saw one of the chapters where Woo looked at Seo-An contact number but then said to himself “I’m so pathetic..”
It’s definitely some insecurities going there. It’s not like he’s doing it because he wants this to be like this, he’s struggling somewhat mentally as well as Seo-an. So please him both of them some slack, I’m sure they’ll figure it out, and I don’t think Woo is a bad partner, he doesn’t live in money and doesn’t have the same lifestyle as his partner.
He’s lived for decades where he’s like a doormat when it comes to family, so yeah don’t expect him to change and communicate when he clearly isn’t ready…unfortunately this is a obstacle in their relationship.
Seo-an shouldn’t have gone behind his back and went to his father but I think he did the right think talking some sense into that shitty father, I just wish it was a situation where both MCs spoke for an hour or two and express themselves.
But clearly mentality is a luxury.
I totally understand where Seo-An is coming from, I'm absolutely annoyed by the father as a READER, so I'd be furious if that POS was my partner's father. But going behind his back trying to 'fix' it definitely ain't it.