havent read this yet, but what's the context for the 'rape' tag?

Why would you need a context for the tag? R@pe tag is as clear as water.

so it's exactly what I'm assuming? i just want to give benefit of the doubt since this is one of the most popular bls

Yes, there is r@pe and cause its BL word its forgiven and forgotten. I never got into this manga cause the Top was an ass*ole and toxic. Im gonna get a bit of hate cause everyone loves Asami but...hard pass