I LOVE your comment!! people really need to understand that our blondie wasn't ready for any of this!! This whole thing is prob like a roller coaster to him. First being told he was bad at sex after 2 YEARS of dating then being told that he needs to be the permanent bottom! Like, people give my man some time to adjust, don't just randomly unload things on him
Plus... if my partner randomly told...ok.no..GOSSIPED about me being bad at sex..AFTER 2 YEARS OF DATING..and that there is a WHOLE bunch of importent things that they choose not to tell me which can easily ruin our relationship...I am fucking leaving..I dont think I will be able to trust them after that....buttt anyways, it's a frictional story who cares if they had a happliy ever after ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
I truly wish people would stop saying the blonde’s selfish for wanting to be top or not understanding that sex before was bad. He wasn’t told by his partner or advised on how to do better. Now he’s been bottoming for his partner and although it makes him feel good, it isn’t something he wants to do a lot. As a switch, I don’t like submitting all the time and someone trying to dominate me while I’m in a top headspace is such a turn off. No one yells at the black haired dude for lying about sex and not informing his partner of his preferences or wanting to top all the time. Black hair guy is bad with communication unlike the blonde who is very upfront. I think they’re dealing with their relationship just fine with the amount of complications it had in the beginning. There are leaning switches and if they’re both dom/top leaning then yea it’ll be a bit bumpy to sort out.