"She could have lived fine with Kalima" she asked to see her friend once and the second Kalima saw her smile at him, he ordered to have him killed and locked her up and forbid her from seeing anyone and told her she would be watched at all times. She had to beg to have 1 friend - Duna. Like this was a political marriage she had no say in and she went from 1 cage to another. Yes she was naive and careless having no experience in the world whatsoever and Henan suffered for it the most, but let's not pretend Kalima was innocent and justified. He's a proper unhinged obsessive psycho type who went crazy when the thing he wanted didn't want him back for the first time.
She could've lived just fine with Kallima?
She had to go and get Henan tortured and killed.
Honestly, I thought that she would fall in love with Kallima at some point, but...
I even thought he would end up with Kallima v2.