Slapping is one thing but CHOKING AND PUTTING YOUR HEAD UNDER WATER. I could never try something like that
I commented this before seeing that part, those includes too. BDSM is my physical abuse while having sex and with consent,dats kinda scary ╥﹏╥
Honestly it's really fun when done correctly but with that being said BDSM is not everyone taste.
That’s why it’s important to relate this stuff just to BDSM! Not everyone (I would say the majority of people) is into this and it’s perfectly fine. I don’t know really much about this, but as far as I know, sometimes it’s related to personal background growing up (example: abusive parents). Sad but its how brain works apparently
I mean yeah I'm sure when you're having good chemistry with that person you're probably gon have a great time trying anything. But for me personally I don't think it's my cup of tea
100% tho for me I got into it because I couldn't feel much, I only found out later on I had a high pain tolerance so I needed pain and things to will help.
BDSM is all existing and fun until you see real one and figure out if you like it or not. And i don't like it, it's too aggressive for my taste , I'm running 100 mile away if someone slap me while having sex. Moom pick me up, I'm scared (⊙…⊙ )