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Oh, maybe it's just the ones I've read then. Usually in the ones I've read the collar is seen more as protection/an engagement "ring" so I can see why a partner giving you one without talking to you first would be offensive. In some other ones it's seen more as like something to bind you to them. I still think it mostly comes down to a consent though
why is it considered disrespectful for an alpha to give an omega a collar? isn't better then being bitten by their alpha, like biting too soon or without the omega consent, or by random alpha?