To the people who are calling FL stupid and the ML a pos, this is for you

Ur_bisexual_bi*ch April 22, 2024 3:21 pm

Guys some of y'all are so used the to recycled regression trope with the "strong" FL who suddenly becomes strong as fuck and the ML who is a cheater and a bitch, y'all are judging this on the same standards.

This is not a story about revenge. It's of forgiveness and understanding. The ML has insane ptsd after war and it was extremely valid. War breaks people beyond repair. Now I am not saying he was valid in treating the FL as such, but he definitely tried his best. Their relationship got messed up only cause the doctor intervened.

And the FL is strong. Mental strength and forgiveness always takes much more willpower and strength than revenge. Revenge and hatred come easy, forgiveness and understanding do not.
She has always been from a poor family with a problematic father, and in the past life she was married for money. In this life she has improved a lot, she doesn't outright forgive the ML but she knows herself how badly war affects people.

Both the characters are really well fleshed out till now and both of them obviously care for each other both in the past and the present life, however due to the different kinds of lives they've led, they had a tough time finding a middle ground.

Responses
    yikesy April 22, 2024 6:23 pm

    Such a good response. The fl is the kindest person at heart, understanding where he's come from, forgiving him, giving him another chance. The ml first of all is not even a cheater in this story but he is aggressive because war can make you loose your mind and i know this personally because my dad went through the same thing. this is a good written story .

    gasha26 April 23, 2024 3:37 am

    thank you for being one of the few intellectuals here. so many people have such harsh standards for a FL. yet they’re women themselves, 90% of the time.

    Eyo it's ya boi April 24, 2024 6:30 am
    thank you for being one of the few intellectuals here. so many people have such harsh standards for a FL. yet they’re women themselves, 90% of the time. gasha26

    Women know women and women hate women. Something along those lines. For some reason if they aren't masculine women they're hated. Signs of emotional strength is not celebrated because for a lot of YA media they push masculine women as the ideal woman.

    steyr April 24, 2024 11:29 am

    Such a well articulated comment. Wish I could like this twice. People don’t know now to wait for and enjoy for delayed satisfaction in a story nowadays. Always wanting to arrive at the end without a build up and then complain that the character development doesn’t make sense.