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if i gave you my email would u actually write an essay about it and send it i deadass wanna read it omg bec what you said rn was so true :(
friend its finals season for me rn but when i finish ill send the essay to u cuz i got a few more thoughts, ill reply to this post then so u can send me ur email (●'◡'●)ﾉ
okayy good luck (i also have finals) !!!
i love seunghees depiction as a victim of grooming,hes not the typical,benevolent,capable of no bad victim often portrayed in media.Victims of grooming are often much more complex than that. seunghee is flawed;hes aware of the grooming,he asks the blond guy to have sex with him knowing its wrong,he gets angry at people trying to help him,he get angry at people in general,he doesnt always do whats best for him or those around him,he rejects advice, he hangs around websites full of pedos and gives in to their requests to meet them in real life to then do it all again,he makes stupid mistakes,hes petty,its all so human. the author never attempts to justify the pedophelia or present seunghee as responsible for blondie’s advances . seunghee persues older men as a way of coping for the lack of parental and familial love in his home,especially paternal love due to his dad abandoning him. he struggles to understand the difference between parental and sexual love leading him to get himself entangled into dangerous situations. i could write a whole essay exploring his cross dressing, his sexuality and its participation into him not being able to seek help like other heterosexual,non crossing dressing victims can.