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Still doesn't mean the ML's feelings of not being trusted because he thought he was slowly helping the MC's trauma Is wrong. All it is is miscommunication/ jealousy? I'm sure he is very happy for MC because just wanted to be the first to know cause he cares the most.
no one said otherwise ? completely different situation u described
Who is blaming him?? Readers? Because torikai has never told him about his exes or his anxieties so he wouldn’t know that he has reasonable fear for speaking up.
yea that’s who im addressing, the readers and the ex… not the ml??
what did you think me saying “you guys” and “fuck insecure partners” stood for. it’s obvious im talking to commenters and the past dude
I’m going to assume you’re speaking so rudely and condescendingly because you thought my comment wasn’t a genuine question and are being defensive. It was just a question. Your comment isn’t clear at all because you didn’t use any descriptors for the people you were referring to.
your question came off as pushback/dismissive so i answered with pushback too thats why. but now i see otherwise mb
you made an assumption with your own question so i pointed out context clues to help you understand. if u struggled it’s fine to ask questions but you focused on correcting me and claiming my og paragraph was unclear when it was very straightforward… your misinterpretation doesn’t dictate how direct my og paragraph was. like i said it’s fine to not get it at first, but clear descriptors aren’t necessary when there’s only one subject this is addressed for (people blaming the misunderstanding on mc)
i can relate since my bf had trauma from his ex. she literally made him like he’s worth nothing. we’re together for five years now and some of the trauma still shows. so what more for the uke. him and the seme aint even official…
right!! a minor miscommunication like this isn’t deserving of the shame/pressure mc is getting. withholding information about his success isn’t inherently bad, not to mention they JUST got into a relationship. it’s normal for them to get to know each other??
some readers lack empathy for realistic situations and always expect mc’s to be perfect . loving people requires patience and room for growth from both ends! it’s great you and your bf are working through it together, fuck that ex
Agree to disagree. Your original comment is inarticulate and your follow up is just as dismissive and hypocritical. I’m going to assume you’re a child based on your immaturity and poor writing skills and mute this
? i wasn’t even being rude in the follow up comment. i gave you clarification and called out how your misinterpretation wasn’t my fault because my words were clear. don’t know where you got hypocritical or immaturity from, im gonna assume you’re a child too based on how bad your critical thinking skills are and resorting to insults just to make up for it lmao
fyi blaming me for your lack of understanding is wild when there was no complexity to the og paragraph. it’s kinda pathetic how u proceeded to again misinterpret me further. no need to overcomplicate and soothe your own ego. your replies are entitled and show you have issues of not being able to handle reciprocated behaviors. poor reading skills and unchecked behavior on your end
idgi how is mc getting blame for not telling him… when he literally has trauma from an overbearing partner who made him tone down his accomplishments and feel guilty about them. do you guys not know how trauma works lmao? he was never allowed to celebrate or enjoy career milestones so of course he’d hesitate to share news. good partners don’t automatically fix your problems