i scratched a car today at my uni parking lot :/

Dilemma April 18, 2024 6:30 pm

i was reversing and scratched it. i panicked and left the fuck outta here but i feel awful i should've left a note or something but didnt. no one was around but there were probably cameras around?? my car is scratched too my brother is gonna be mad as hell wtf why am i so stupid

Responses
    Hxzyzed April 18, 2024 6:43 pm

    you made a mistake not because your stupid, I know it sounds cringe but dont be too hard on your self the fact that you even acknowledge what happened already makes u a better person.

    Hxzyzed April 18, 2024 6:45 pm
    you made a mistake not because your stupid, I know it sounds cringe but dont be too hard on your self the fact that you even acknowledge what happened already makes u a better person. Hxzyzed

    you did somethig stupid but that doesn't make u a stupid person***

    Arthea April 18, 2024 6:46 pm
    you made a mistake not because your stupid, I know it sounds cringe but dont be too hard on your self the fact that you even acknowledge what happened already makes u a better person. Hxzyzed

    thanks....but tbh i want to get away with it, like i hope the person doesn't notice and doesn't take action. i feel awful thinking this but its the truth

    Hxzyzed April 18, 2024 6:48 pm
    thanks....but tbh i want to get away with it, like i hope the person doesn't notice and doesn't take action. i feel awful thinking this but its the truth Arthea

    well you is fucked cause I really believe that all things come to light,

    Arthea April 18, 2024 6:50 pm
    well you is fucked cause I really believe that all things come to light, Hxzyzed

    LMAOOOOO, ok that's fair i guess

    YoYoYoYo April 18, 2024 7:24 pm

    Its okay to make a mistake, if you feel extremely bad, you can probably go to police and they could check the cameras and you'll pay for the damage. Youre not stupid because of that, people make mistakes, my mom scratched a car once too by accident and she has driver's license for like 20 years , sometimes just the day, week, month, year isn't going according to ours liking and that very normal.

    ShizukaChann April 18, 2024 7:47 pm

    That happened to me too and I had no clue what I'm supposed to do at that moment so I panicked and ran away... It was my neighbour's car and I spend two nights stressing about it and feeling bad... It happens to lot of us, don't worry too much. Also I ended up without getting punished cuz no one suspected me for some reason (but I still feel terribly when I think about it)

    rou2x April 18, 2024 7:48 pm

    glad you're aware that what you did is wrong, but it doesn't really count unless you own up to your mistake. the car you scratched belongs to someone. have you considered what it would be like if you were in their shoes? like, suddenly there's a scratch on their car, no note, no compensation, nothing. what if that person also has a brother who will get mad at them? basically, what i'm saying is, you should be more empathetic to others, especially because you're aware that what you did was wrong. oh, and it's not stupid to make a mistake... although it is ignorant when you choose to do nothing even if you're in the wrong.

    Arthea April 18, 2024 8:10 pm
    glad you're aware that what you did is wrong, but it doesn't really count unless you own up to your mistake. the car you scratched belongs to someone. have you considered what it would be like if you were in th... rou2x

    you're absolutely correct and even though i feel really bad about it, i am selfish and a part of me really wants this to go unnoticed. also i have genuinely no idea how to find the car i scratched i just remember it being blue and nothing else

    Arthea April 18, 2024 8:13 pm
    That happened to me too and I had no clue what I'm supposed to do at that moment so I panicked and ran away... It was my neighbour's car and I spend two nights stressing about it and feeling bad... It happens t... ShizukaChann

    hi thanks for commenting, can i ask if your family noticed it or not? and if they did what did you say to them?